Friday, November 13, 2009

Is it true love for him as im his first love??

do u believe that ur first love was actually true love?-iv had boyfriends in the past that i was with for quite a long time and at the time was in 'love' or thought that i was, but after u split up and u move on to the next person u look back and think no it wasnt love just lust!! im currently in love at the moment and i no that this is the one which is true love as iv got other people and experiances to compare it to however my ex/boyfriend(its complicated) he has had serious girlfriends before in the past but claims im his first true love-im just abit worried about the fact that it may not actually be love for him as he doesnt no any different %26amp; cant compare it to anything...like i said i look back at previous r'ships %26amp; think that wasnt really love-what if its not for him and he could love someone else alot more but just doesnt no it yet. he is %100 my true love and i no he is but im so worried that im not really his and he doesnt realise?





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Is it true love for him as im his first love??
But if he has had serious girlfriends then he does have something to compare his past and present feelings to.
Reply:iit may not be true love but depends how you feel about hiim/her
Reply:i am going through the phase of "omg, wtf was i thinking in the past. i never loved that guy." i've been in a relationship for over a year now and i am truly, madly, and deeply in love with this guy. i thought i was in love before, but i knew i couldn't have been after i got the feelings i have for this boy. i think if he's had relationships in the past and truly tells you he thinks you're his first true love i think he's telling the truth. at least i know from experience i'm telling the truth and i was in many serious relationships before, but learned that this one is true love.
Reply:I'd be careful if I was you. He's blowing things way out of proportion. If you've really bowled him over like he claims, he'd be more quiet about it. Men withdraw when they fall inlove because they're seriously weighing up the pro's and the cons of potentially spending their whole life with that one person. If he's saying this to you out-right, it's what he says to all the girls either cos he loves the re-action he gets or he is constantly hopelessly wearing his heart on his sleeve- In which case you are dealing with a Mr. nice guy who will eventually turn into Mr.obsessed, want's to control everything about you kinda guy. I don't know him, only you do, but there's a very good reason why his other relationships finished. Always two sides to every story. Keep your cool and sound him out well.


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