Unrequited Love? Everyone give your opinions? Do it. Do it..?

Shawn here, Blink-182 fan since the 20th Century, 16 year old Junior in High School Anyway, i was in English 11B, a few days ago,, and there was a discussion on unrequited love and love in particular. Although, i was off in my own world daydreaming, about things, i still managed to hear some of the discussion. It was about how one could love someone they knew they couldn't have, and a discussion on what love is? I simply tuned out because i know i'll never find love( girls don't notice me, and generally high school girls don't like the nice guy.) What happened to the sophisticated down to earth girl? Anywho, are you or have you ever experienced unrequited love? Do you know anyone who ever has? If so, how did you deal with it? Do you even believe in love itself? Why or why not? I do not because, once could love, then have their heartbroken the next day. For example, a girl i really liked in 8th grade rejected me and it took me a long time to get over it. Love doesn't exist.





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Unrequited Love? Everyone give your opinions? Do it. Do it..?
Oh, unrequited love, the story of my life...


It can be so excruciating. I have had at least 4 or 5 in my day, men that I couldn't have, men that I couldn't even speak to, men that I knew wanted to be with me, but for whatever reason, just couldn't be with me, or even those men who didn't even want me back.


Unrequited love (or lust) is painful, and is often most felt during the teens and twenties, when you find that every other potential love interest turns out to be an unrequieted love. That's why they're called "crushes," they're not easy...


"One-sided love" is not easy.


So, as someone speaking from experience, I can tell you that a.) It's hard to get over someone, but eventually, you will


b.) It's not the end of the world if you feel as if you'll never get over it (you will!) and c.) The expression 'There are other fish in the sea' is a popular expression because it's true.


You're very young. Love does exist.


May you grow wise with experience.





And P.S.: We do like the nice guys!
Reply:I disagree. Love does exist. You just have to experience it the right way, that's all. Also; wouldn't it be better to be in love with someone you know who is in love with you as well? If that particular girl rejects you, she obviosuly didn't feel the same way as you, which means; it was something that wasn't meant to be.





You have to stop thinkin there is no such thing, as that will only make things more difficult.