Complicated..love?

i'm in uk right now and my bf going off to us soon ..and this will make us a long distance relationship...i wish and i wish he could be mine forever ..he love me dearly and very protective over me.i love him guys i love him so much cause when i met him and fall inlove with him ,he;s diffrent from other guy ..i can feel his love and it;s real ..i did once , saying bout brekup to him and he cried :'( ..i love him but i dont know if this gonna work or not.. he got his passed love life but i'm over it ..he still jelouse if i'm talking about my ex sometimes.do u think my love will work for long distance relationship,the fact is i love him and i wish i could be with him but i got uni and work so do him :'( .he told me he will visit me soon when he arrive down there .will he betray me? will this work for real?we gonna be apart about 10 months till he coming down again.:"((

Complicated..love?
my best friend her b.f left to da u.s for about ayear and nothin' changed hes back now and they are just as great as they were do you kow why cuz its areal love
Reply:Long distance relationships do not have a very high percentile, when it comes to whether or not they will last or whether or not one or the other is faithful.
Reply:Well if you guys love is as strong as you say go for it. Me personally I would take a little break for trust issues and you don't have to worry about whats hes doing and vice-versa. When he comes back and you guys meet up you sit and talk and tell everything that you guys did so that there is nothing in the open and you wont have anything to worry about because you all know what went on while he was gone. I think you guys can work it out. My cousin lives in Iraq with the war and him and his girl are still dating to this day and there ready to get married. It worked out for them and im sure it will work out for you.
Reply:Long distance relationships can be emotionally trying and hard; but are not impossible. It sounds like, you need to just make up your mind if you really want to try or not. Sounds like you love this guy and he loves you...if you want to make it work then you will. Make a plan for communication such as letters email etc. You doubt him cheating on you; so talk to him about your worries. As long as you two both love eachother, have a plan for communication, and stay committed to the relationship and find ways to keep communication and fun open; then you can survive a long distance relationship...





i answered a similar question earlier...i have had much experience as a military wife...it takes lots of hard work and communication...and stay focused on what you have and the memories you love...dont focus on the time apart; focus on the next time...it is hard to do but it is possible if you set your mind to it.
Reply:First: you need to take a class in English/grammar.


Second: doesn't your computer have spell check?


Third: If English is a second language for you, then you definitely need to retake your English/gramme class again.


Fourth: If you have to ask if others will think your long distance relationship will work and your don't trust him, then no it probably will not last. Love transcends time, space/distance and overcomes any obstacles thrown in its way.


Fifth: From what you are saying to us, I don't think this relationship will withstand the distance because you don't trust one another. Trust is one of the first and most important elements in a lasting relationship.