Why does love hurt continued?

True love should not hurt not ever. I think we have confused love with like. Friends love eachother but is it the kind of love a man has for his wife? Maybe. I had that love for a friend here online. She ate it up for a while but in the end she finally came clean and I belive in time she freed herself of the life. She actually is in love or will be with some one else. And until she told me things only got worse. I got over the hurt. Yes it hurt. I'm more deeply concerned for her. I know that God has the ONE out there for me and to her should she ever read this I LOVE YOU BABY. The lesson is learned and what I got from my friend and me was character building. I'm a stronger and better man for this and she's a stronger and better woman and I wish her and her bf the best of luck. Same for all of u. True love never hurts it's partner it only gets turned in a different direction or aimed at the wrong people some times but that does not mean we cannot love that person as a friend.

Why does love hurt continued?
I am a 27 year old mother of three. I was struggling with life until I met the most wonderful man. He was 19 years older than me but from the moment he looked my way I was his. He and I fell deeply in love. My kids loved him so much. They had been through alot. My 9 yr. old sons father shook him at 6 mos. old and he was severely injured and is now confined to a wheelchair. Then my now 5 %26amp; 7 yr. old little girls were molested by their father. I tell you this because it shows why I was so happy when I finally found the love of my life that brought happiness back into my babies lives and taught me to trust in men again. We were perfect for each other. The one problem was he couldnt handle it if he drank and we fought. On 4 different occasions he left me. He was drunk and not thinking clearly. It was the fourth time he left that I told my parents and that was it. My father said if I took him back this time he would have nothing to do with me. Not only was that bad enough but a girl whom I thought was a friend told him I had been cheatining on him. I have never been unfaithful to any man. He filed for divorce and no matter how much I begged him to come home, he just said he couldn't cause it was too late. We both were crushed and I will never be over it totally. I have since moved on with my life and I am engaged to be married in the future to a wonderful man. He has custody of his two boys and my children call him daddy. We are so in love but as you know the past will always hurt and love still lies deep within. I feel your pain and I don't know why love has to hurt. And you are right. We can love that person as a friend. I too am a stronger and better person now. Pain teaches us lessons in life. They may be hard but that is part of lifes journey. God has a plan for us and whatever happens is meant to be. Thank you for being intelligent and giving great insight. Sorry for your hurt but we both are still alive aren't we. Lets do each other a favor and smile:)

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