I love for the first time in my life and the person i love does not love me. what i can do to end this love.?

i love aperson so mach and i have told him that i love him. but he answer me and said that can not be true love as we meet only 2 times, i told him u meight be right but i am sure from what i feel. and i ask him to continue our relationship and see what will happend. he accept we meet alot of time and i make evey thing to make him feel how i love him but now we don't meet alot and i can't prevent my self from thinking in him and i am waiting him to call me from 4 monthes but he did not call. and when i call him he said he was basy but that is not true.now i am so sad and i wish if i meet him for mintes because i miss him so mach.also this love have abad effect on my study and my life. moreover i meet another person as i thought that will make me forget him but it was so hard and i did not continue this any more. so what i can do to forget him?

I love for the first time in my life and the person i love does not love me. what i can do to end this love.?
If you truly love him then you will respect his right/decision not to be with you. Also if you truly love him just finding another will not help you get over him.





1st- you have to accept that he is not going to be with you.


2nd- realize that this is not the end of your world. Yes, you've lost the first person you've loved, but he may not be the only one. At least you know you can love.


3rd- Try to see what you've learned from the experience. One lesson would be that you can love, are there others? If you can find what good came out of this it can help heal the hurt.





You won't forget him and you may think about him for long after. You always remember the first love. But slowly begin to allow yourself to be open to the new coming experiences and not dwell on your past loss.
Reply:Anybody can be forgotten thru replacement only. Therefore try to find out suitable replacement.
Reply:obsession and ignorance are bliss.
Reply:Cut the drama by about a third. And, realize that loving someone, does not give you rights over them. It seems to me that you are trying to use love like some kind of mortar to fill a gaping hole that's in your life. Find out whats really missing and then fix it. That will make you more lovable to yourself and anyone else.
Reply:humans make life complicated by focusing too much on emotions... the answer to your question: find someone else to give that love to, who will appreciate it..
Reply:if i were u i would find what kind of persons he like and act like that,i would love the things what he loves(for example:he likes madonna i like madonna to...)
Reply:Hi, Im a boy 15 years old.I should inform u that the last 2 years I fell in love 3 times.The first lasted for about 3 months.The girl wasnt the right person because she was "whor e".I wasnt thinking of her but sometimes i did.So I got over this situation.The other 2 times I fell in love was at the same time with the 2 girls.I like them both.The one girl was the continue of the other.The 1st is a "whore" too but an ok person for friendship.The second one has a bf.I'm still in this situation......So I think u should try not thinking of him and try o think others or other things.I hope I help u. GOOD LUCK!!!!
Reply:Find somebody else.
Reply:simple if u know the fact suppose if u marry him after that u got separated better love a person who loves u.