I do love her, and I know she loves me, but she doesnt think that i love her so she broke it off.?

Ok so as that stated, i love this girl, shes the best thing to ever happen to me, we met when we werent even looking, and weve been going out for 1yr %26amp; practically 7months, she broke up with me nov. 5th '07, because she said that i didnt love her and that i didnt care about her, and that isnt true, but her mind is set on that i dont love her. i know nobody is perfect, and i know that i changed during that time period, but my love for her didnt. i have been thinking about her ever since we broke up, and its hard for me not to. so shes going out with someone from where she works, and i thought at first this was just the rebound guy. the more i think about it the more confused i become. so my question basically for now is, if you thought your loved one didnt love you, and someone else was showing you affection and attention, would you break up with the one you love for the person that you dont really like but only gives you affection?

I do love her, and I know she loves me, but she doesnt think that i love her so she broke it off.?
Girl's are complicated, I know, I am one. I've gone through a lot of boyfriends, and I don't like to say it but I have broken up with some for others. And the reason was always that my boyfriend wasn't showing me affection. You have to constantly show your girlfriend that you love her. Even though she loves or loved you, she was scared you didn't love her, and thought someone else did. Girl's always need constant reminding and closure. So yes, I would break up with the one I loved for the one that gave me attention and affection. You might be able to win her back, but the only way would be to begin a friendship with her. A normal one, don't act like you ever went out unless she brings it up. Give her attention as a friend, and eventually she will realize you are capable of paying attention to her. (: Hope I helped.
Reply:Your girlfriend must've had a good reason to think that you didn't love her. Perhaps she didn't like the way you were treating her. And that's why she didn't believe your claims that you loved her.





Love is not just the feeling you have. It's also how you treat the other person in every-day life. It's the deeds and not the words that people believe most.
Reply:no because you love that person, and when you lose that person, it makes you want that person more. because of all the memories, it makes u think that losing them will mak u feel lik ur losing a part of yourself. stay with the person u love because even if the other person you dont lik is showin affection to u, it doesnt necessarily mean that affection will last.
Reply:Aw, wow your question sounds so emotional %26amp; sincere. I wish I had a 100% proofed answer to give you. 1yr%26amp; 7 months is a long time to date then break it off %26amp; start somewhere else. It could defintly be a rebound then again I've seen some "rebounds" turn into more than just a phase. Why did you change,better yet how did you change? It could be your lose %26amp; a lessoned learned that you shouldn't mistreat a special love. The truth is only time will tell
Reply:i htink that its up to you! mabey the one who gives you affection could love you and you could love her. but if you relly love the one u loved, u could make it work if you RELLY wanted it to. thats a hard one bud!