What is love?

people say tht love is long lasting.if it is long lasting,why does it change.?why do people love someone and suddenly they start loving someone else?can we call that as love?


a girl said that she loves you,you also love her ,treat her as god,do everything for her for years and one day she leaves you for some other guy? if she was in love.how could she suddenly stop loving?is love is some sort of clothe which you can just remove and throw?

What is love?
Love is patient, love is kind and not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly; it's not selfish, is not angered easily, does not take into account a wrong suffered, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love Never Fails!
Reply:your actions
Reply:You use two terms here, "love" and being "in love". They are not interchangeable and mean quite different things. Unfortunately people mistake one for the other quite often or they don't even understand love, they just know the feeling of being in love. Let me share with you how I understand this and by doing that I believe I will answer your question.





Being in love is a feeling. It's that total infatuation with someone, you feel like they are perfect, like the whole world is so much brighter when they are around. You can think of nothing but them. This is what you'll see in most romantic movies, etc. The one thing that some people don't realize about being in love, is that just like any other emotion, it is completely temporary. After a few months or years (or however long it is with that particular person) that feeling wears off, you start seeing the person for who they are, imperfections and all, and you start wondering where did that feeling go...





Loving someone is much deeper than that. To love someone is to make a conscious decision that you will act in their best interest, will support them and let them grow, regardless of how you feel about them at the moment or how they might hurt you. To love someone is to make a true commitment, a very deep bond with them. You might find with time that they are not as attractive, or as funny, or as smart as you thought they were. You might find that they were careless with your feelings and hurt you deeply by doing something selfish. And even though you at times feel like you can't stand them or they hurt you real bad, it doesn't change your commitment to them. You'll still be there in a blink of an eye when they need your help.





Whether it be a good parent's love for their child, or a true friend's love for another friend, or a wife's love for her husband, true love is that deep, that immovable. As the Good Book says, "love overcomes all things".





I think that in part this is why we have such a high divorce rate in this country. People think that feeling "in love" is integral to continueing a relationship. It is not. It's great when it's there, but how great is it to know that someone is truly there for you no matter what happens? How safe does it make you feel? How thankful? I think that even when the feeling of being in love is gone, as long as you truly love the person, this love can always spark the feelings right back, because they are rooted deep in love.





That's why I think it is so wise that our marriage vows have such phrases as "for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health..." They didn't write "as long as I feel ecstatic to see you". Love will be there long after the looks and the misconceptions about that person are gone.





So someone that truly loves you does not even consider being without you as an option. They would never leave you because they are not excited about you anymore. Life goes on, people change with time, but love is timeless. So the person who leaves their "loved" one after a few years was in love but never made that true commitment to love them.
Reply:love is a feeling that you cant find the words to describe with....you know its there and just can't explain it. if someone said she loved you and left...have you ever asked yourself why??? she might left with some other reasons and yet, still loving you. love cannot be remove and throw, its just there...its always be a part. If she had left you.....there might be a deeper reason you have not realized what. :(
Reply:love is feeling.its came from hart.love is not changing, lover attitude is changing.someone is see you then she is go in your love and you go in her love.it is a look like a love, not areal love.because the hart is not attend between this type of love.if love is going on only by hart,then it could not stop.because hart stop is life stop.
Reply:love is truth !!
Reply:Love is a personal unidirectional effect. It is a unique feeling one have for someone. 'UNIQUE FEELING' for some one means you should not have same feeling for others.





You love your mother,father,brother, friends with different 'UNIQUE FEELING for each one. When such 'UNIQUE FEELING' is developed in you for someone - it is know as Love. As I said you it is UNIDIRECTIONAL.





I hope u got my meaning. From whatever you have written in your question, I can say that you are undoubtedly in LOVE.





All the best
Reply:That is lust or infatuation, which dies like April flowers.
Reply:good sex
Reply:attraction for sex and feelings..............
Reply:love is never expressed in words, let me tell u if this things happen then u have to look in details what went wrong behind that girls this step , she might have done for her parents, this also is a kind of love but love towards ur parents........never give a comment before going to a conclusion.
Reply:It is not love which changes. It's the person who carries the feelings. Love can be everlasting. But a person.. A person changing is inevitable.
Reply:love is selfishness
Reply:The river that flows between hearts.
Reply:lol... welcome to my club dude!!! same thing happened to me a year back... took me 2 months to get out of it.


Anyway, ever heard the saying, "Nothing is permanent in this world, except change"


People change, along with their priorities. When we don't belong in their priority list, we are replaced by someone who's more elligible for them.


Thats what i think to satisfy myself.
Reply:Love is devotion. it has no word for discirbe it.
Reply:thats not love. Real love is built and will last forever. You know when it is love. And love cannot be instant, it takes work but if it is ment to be it will be.
Reply:It's an ABYSS!


u just can't get out of it!
Reply:LOVE is something when no matters what happens both trust each other