Love is so confusing & it hurts!?

ok i have been talking with this guy for a year now... and we really like eachother... but i dont see him much because he goes to a different school... so we talk on the internet %26amp; phone like crazy... he said he was in love with me %26amp; i was in love with him... then this other guy at my school asked me out %26amp; i wasnt thinking straight %26amp; said yes then after school i broke up with him because im in love with the other guy... i had to tell the what happened in case he found out by someone else.. he said it was ok because i dumped him %26amp; didnt stay with him... then i told him why i dumped the guy. (i dumped him because im in love with you)... then he was ok with everything... then he started acting weird %26amp; telling girls to call him... i was like wtf? so i got all pissed and went back out with the other guy... %26amp; now i told him that i still love him %26amp; he still loves me... but im going out with this guy... yes i do like him but i dont love him "as much" as i love the other guy... %26amp; idk what to do

Love is so confusing %26amp; it hurts!?
well, i would dump ur current bf b/c you might hurt him by staying wit him. next, you confront the other boy and tell him what you just told me. Good Luck!
Reply:it sounds like ur wanna be "boi" was playing the jealousy game...and that is something you don't want to start in. if he really loved you, he would hav asked you out. and i don't understand that. if you love someone, you'd do anything for them and stay close to them and date them and get to kno them better, but he didn't even take you on DATES! it doesn't sound like you weren't 'thinking straight' it sounds like you were thinking perfectly well! you can't wait around for a guy who says he "loves" you!


don't mean to sound harsh, but its true.





-rasari
Reply:tell him that you're going backout with the other guy and you figured it was ok since the two of you were not together even if you do love him give the new guy a chance cuz it sounds like thats what hes doin with the other chicks
Reply:Sounds like he was jealous over you saying yes to that guy, and so he started telling girls to call him to try to make you jealous. So you two need to stop playing the "lets see who can make the other person jealous the most" game, because if you don't you'll ruin the relationship.





Love is more important than like. Always. Love is what matters the most. You need to get rid of the guy that you like, and stay faithful to the guy that you love. He needs to do the same..get rid of the girls. So that means no more dates with the other guy and all that stuff, for you and no more telling girls to call him, for him. Simple as that.
Reply:WTF! screw him. if he really loved you he wouldn't have other girls trying to call him up. Your better off with that one guy that goes to your school." Atleast he's only got eyes for you." or web cam or w.e...... I understand that you love the one guy from the other school but how can you trust him now that he showed you he is willing to call other girls even after he declared his "love'' for you. Let him go. THis strange love triangle, is way to confusing. But if you want, then go out with the guy from the other school and then wait to get your heart broken by his player ***. I'm really not trying to bring you down( i'm guessing it's a little to late for that) but i want to tell you what i think and what i believe you should do. But then again i can't tell you what to do. I've given you one side to the many possibilities that could come of this relationship. If you still want to pursue him go for it.
Reply:NOTHING CAN BEAT LOVE. DONT BE WITH A GUY JUS BECAUSE U CANT BE WITH SOMEONE ELSE. THAT PLAYING WITH SOMEONES FEELINGS ITS LIKE YOUR USING THE GUY YOUR WITH TO GET BACK AT THE GUY U LOVE. N THAT WONT SOVLE NOTHING!! IT WILL JUS CREATE MORE PROBLEMS.
Reply:love sucks whenevr i got out with a girl i get played and i dont know why tht hapens its so depesing o srry i cant help you i just let anger out by typing it srry!
Reply:How old are you? Answer that and i'll give you more.
Reply:tell the guy that you love that you want to date him or be his gf, whatever. because you like him and he likes you. Just be straight up with everyone. good luck.
Reply:how are you really in love with someone when you don't see them?





thats like saying you you have been dating someone for two years and you have only seen them like five times in a two year span.
Reply:DUMP the other lad because u dont love him. u should be with the lad u love. he did this to get u back for hurting him by going out with the second lad! confusing i know! but follow ur heart and be smart.........what makes u happy? its not right to string the other lad along!
Reply:none of this is love what are you like 12??? think about doing your school work right and getting into a good college before you wind up someones "baby momma"