I love him, and i KNOW he loves me...?

loved him for 4 years %26amp; he says hes loved me too. hes best friends practically bros, with my 1st cousin. i was going crazy for him, he was writing me all these beautiful letters, and i was sure he was playing around with my heart b/c he is EXTREMELY good looking %26amp; i know for a fact that many girls like him. hed say me he loved me and id believe him but he would never call me, never show up when we were going to hang out, never email back, and if he had a chance to see me he probably wouldnt show up. everytime i would forgive him because i knew that "he loves me." last time i saw him was on new years he was my new years kiss %26amp; i havent seen him since, even though he could have seen me friday. finally i said, “Kevin, why are you doing this? You SAY you love me, im the only girl you could ever want, that you will never stop loving what you see in my eyes, but you don’t SHOW it. Why don’t you keep your promises?" he said


"okay anna. im going to be honest w/ you. I LOVE YOU. But youre my

I love him, and i KNOW he loves me...?
Whoa you can't get an answer for this either! This is almost my exact issue with a friend of mine. I use the term friend loosely because he hasnt spoken to me in months.





All I can say is...I think the first cousin would be more forgiving than he thinks. Atleast mine was. He could be using the counsin excuse so he doesn't have to date you. Maybe he enjoys having you the way you are so he is free to have someone else when he isn't anywhere around you.





The only real difference between our stories he never told me he loved me...came close but never did. He just tried to break me and some up after I had given up on him. Now I am happy with another man that treats me way better than he ever did. The best I can tell you (even though its hard) you need to really move on. Waiting around for him is unheathy and you deserve (just like me) so much better than what he is offering you. You need someone that will SHOW you LOVE not just kiss you when it is convenient for him.