Love n age?

Does it make a difference?!?


Well i have a boyfriend of almost 2 years now. We have been thru ups n dwns n all around. He loves me n I definetly love him!! But my Mom and also his Mom believe that we shouldnt be together, becuz of our age difference he is 18 and I am 15. Bt our birthdays follow one another. His is in april n mine is in may. I love him with all my heart and its not perfect but we are getting there. We are working on a lot of things at this current moment also. Like we are working on trust and communication. And now on top of all that we have our parents to worry about. They believe our love is just temporary, but I believe that it is forreal even though I am younger than him. They say im not mature enough for him. But I have done a lot of mature for him but they dont no that I have. I want to make this work so bad but we have so much of a difference wit each otha. We got to worry about the law but that isnt really a factor.I know what we have to do to solve these problems bt he is bein negative...





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5 hours ago


He is on house arrest so we really cant see each other besides at school. And he has a bad past with his ex girl before me like he was really in deeplove with her but then she broke his heart by cheating on him!! And now he has a lot of trust issues and doesnt like for me to go out and have fun n stuff n he is always scared that he is going to get hurt once again but I ALWAYS tell him that I am not like that and I would neva do dat to him but he always compares me to her like well she said da same thang but im not her but you no it takes time. He treats me good but sometimes he doesnt becz he doesnt want to see me hurt him so he holds bck how he feels and how much he really does love me to save himself. but wen he gets off house arrest we are going to get couples counseling but until then we r gonna try our hardest to make it work da best way it can. What do u thinnk? Can u help me?





5 hours ago


WHAT DO U DO WHEN U LOVE THEM? N THEY LOVE U BT UR PARENTS DNT LIKE THE IDEA THEY SAT U CAN B TOGETHA N IF ITS REAL 2 YRS 4M NOW U WILL FEEL DA SAME BT JUS NOT NOW. BT I DNT WANT TO GIVE UP WITH OUT A FIGHT AND ESPECIALLY ALL THE THINGS WE'VE BEEN THRU Y WULD WE GIVE UP NOW AFTA ALL THE OTHA BAD THINGS THAT WE HAVE EXPERIENCED TOGETHA!!! I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO?!????

Love n age?
By your own account, this guy has some serious problems. Even if you were as old as he is, I'd say you're in a tricky spot, and likely to end up in an abusive relationship if you aren't careful.





The two of you do not need couples counseling. He needs to leave you alone, and see a therapist, by himself. Instead, he has decided to unload his problems on a 15 year old girl, which I'd say is rather cowardly.





You're concerned about him getting hurt, but you don't sound like you're too concerned about you getting hurt. That's what you're parents are concerned about. Maybe you aren't inclined to listen to your parents because they've let you down in some way. Even without knowing anything about them, I'd say they probably have. They're human, but I think they are absolutely right about this situation. I really think you should listen to them.
Reply:Hi, I have the same problem. My parents do not like my boyfriend because he is eighteen and I am fifteen. I did not mean to fall in love with him but it happened and I am very happy to be with him. But as I read in your story, I have a different view with our love. To be continued... Report It

Reply:age is just a number..but honey, your to young, yeah your 15 but hes 18. you do know that ur moms n pops can call the cops on him right, because ur a minor, if you guys hav trust issue, then i dnt think it'll work out, trust is the number one thing a relationship, with out it your lost.. if you love him and he loves yous.. then you should wait...if your moms says its OK in the nxt 2 yrs then wait, wats wrong with being Friends? your parents wont get all over you case, plus ur still young..if you think it'll work out in the long run then stay, if not.just be Friends
Reply:I sorry to say but my opinion would be to just be friends with him. I know it would hurt but he's to old for you. you said it your self that it was against the law. i have a boyfriend too and i know it would be hard to let go. but through it all i hope you make the right decision.
Reply:Wow your boring......
Reply:dump him now!
Reply:well him 16 and in luv so id say ur more than mature enuf.. id say just do wat ur heart tells you, and unfortunately, ur parents do have ultimate control over you til ur 18, so just keep the relationship as it iz for now, and when ur 18 then u can begin progressing again.. the counseling is a good idea, maybe itll strengthen ur relationship more :) good luck