Why love makes you so weak...?

I love a girl and she doesnt love me.She hurts me very often , even every day , shes saying "find someone else" "dont wait for me" "lets be just friend , and when u answering u wont to be part of her life shes saying , she want "nothing" form u.


She havent told me that she had boyfriend when i meet her , she told me after i badly felt in love...and she decided to reject me. Shes selfish , speaking a lot about her work , and what "SHE" wants to do , where she wants to travel "alone" , or that she miss her country (where her boyfriend lives) , and shes "my friend" but i love her...how much suffer we guys can stand...to be in love..which we all the time want to have...we want that love still , everyone around can tell me , shes not deserve me , i will be angry and still love her , for me shes perfect..HOW to find a deal with your mind and heart , cos two of them are playing diffrent song ....maybie im just stupid..if i could catch that cupidin whos shooted me his arrow of hoplessly love.

Why love makes you so weak...?
i hate to give you a total dr. phil answer but more is wrong in your life that this girl that clearly doesn't love you. maybe you should try to figure out why your willing to take such constant abuse and embarrassment. everyone in the world wants to be happy and wants all good things in their life. just in case you didn't know you have to make room for good things to come. if you keep having this bad relationship then you'll never make room for a good one.. I'm sure you've already been told to leave her be. but maybe the question needs to be how much abuse are you willing to take. how much of yourself are you going to allow be destroyed by being kicked around like this. whatever your answer is, whatever your last straw is, i can guarantee she will (if not already) cross that line. so your choice is to wait for total destruction or get out while you still can, and maybe while you still have a little left to offer someone who actually deserves it. good luck and remember you can do bad all by yourself!
Reply:No offense but you let her make you feel bad. If she uses you, you let her do that to you. You expressed your feelings towards you and she towards you. Now you need to move on because your only causing yourself humiliation and pain sweetie.
Reply:well ...if she is selfish and she thinks that u aren't good enough or what else darn reason ... dump her she is one in a million... if u told yourself that she is my friend so she is ur friend and if u don't her as a friend also that is fine... don't worry u will find much better than her.... and love doesn't make us weak ...it's us who weaken our self...Good luck
Reply:You should just keep away form her and try to forget about her .... unfortunately u made the number one mistake that all good guys do when they really like a girl which is show them that you really care bout them... once you show them that all they do is take you for granted .... just stepp back there are tooooooooooo many other girls in this world to just focus on one!
Reply:Get over it. Its obvious she does not and will not love you. Meet more friends and go out and have fun. Keep busy until slowly you think less of her.
Reply:Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh what a beautiful storyyyyyyyyyyyyyy, i love reading when guys feel like this for girls, but you see, there is this guy which for me he's just a friend but to him i'm everything, he wants to marry me, he has proposen me more than once, i do not love him, i care for him, i don't want to hurt him, but i can't lie to myself either and say that i love him when i don't...........You know sometimes is like a "desire" we go after someone we cannot have, we try and try, suffer so we could reach to our goal, but the truth is we only end up hurting ourself, at the end we realize we still didn't achieve it!!


Try and think of it this way """ if she doesn't want me 1ce, i don't want her 100 times more"""
Reply:well for me she is a good girl, cuz she is telling u to find someone else, she is not playing with ur feelings, she is t elling u upfront.. well maybe that ur obssessed with her... dont do that thats bad for ur health. just move on cuz if u dont then u never going to be happy.





well if u need any more advice my email is gilarma@gmail.com
Reply:im in the same situation it so badly hurts i wish i could get the happiness i would like.but someone already beat me to it my love for her is so strong its unbeliveable...





im trying do hard to move on but its been two years now and i still feel the same...








shes my soulmate but not in this life i think..mayeb the next





thanks very much for answering my Question...your a wee darling i wish u all the best in the future :) xx
Reply:coming from me a person who kinda is in the same situation but im just the girl in the scene. let it go because if she has her mind made up then she most likely wont change it. find a girl that will cherish u and forget about this girl that u love because at the end of the day ur wasting ur time on one who dosent love u back while u can be meeting great people that one day can make u happy. good luck
Reply:hey buddy,look a women by INSIDE not OUTSIDE..if inside is bad(i mean heart)..then outside is worst.It won't made happiness.I faced it once in my life.I know,its hurt.But...remember one thing,Flowers is not one in this world,there are thousand.So think,why you're wasting ur time hoping on one who doesnt love you?Its better you finding someone who truly love you.
Reply:You should listen to her, she is trying to tell you that she don't love you in that way. You love her but she don't love you, this kind of a relationship will not work in any way good for either of you, mainley it will work agaist you, because you are the one pushing for it, she is the one pushing away from it. listen to her, she is trying to be kind to you about not wanting you as her lover.
Reply:you know what your feeling might not be what you think it is ...love is a reflection of it self and your not very loved as i can tell........you'll see later on this is not good for you,,,you'll find someone with more love for you then you can even imagine in one life time...
Reply:people have different taste when it comes on to love. maybe she is just not in love with you and you will have to start understanding now to move on with your life
Reply:I think u need 2 let go love, anger and love dont mix well and if u keep holding all this in you there is a chance u might do something u regret. move on and forget about her even as a friend you will be better off without her