Im in love with ex but with a new guy and i have 3 children?

my ex is in prison and says he still loves me. my bf and i have been together for 4 years he great to my children and they love him hes the only dad they know. My ex is my first love (first guy ive been with) we broke up cause he cant be around kids right now. he says he loves me and i love him its been 9 years since we broke up. Im 25 years old. my bf is great but we argue and fight alot. I care for him i dont know if i love him. my children love him. Am i suppose to stay with him cause of my kids? My ex is 2 of my childrens fauther. he got charges before we met. but i love him so much but cant be with him cause of his charges. What do i do ? Im unhappy most the time with my bf even though he gives me what ever i want. I might love him but i dont know.

Im in love with ex but with a new guy and i have 3 children?
you have to remember why he is your ex
Reply:Wow!!! There are only so many reasons why this guy isn't allowed around children. Why do you even question the possibility of being with him when these restrictions apply. You have children, what in God's name is best for them? I pray for you all, in Jesus' name.
Reply:trust me, it sounds like it would be a small sacrifice to leave this guy in prision. you need to get away from him and stop letting him influence and use you. Make a better life with this man you're with. If he really treats you right then you will be happier with him.
Reply:I know how you feel.. the only way to be happy is to get away.. you have to take your kids and just get away.. from him or any man just to see how you feel.. if you feel better then you know what you have to do.. dont loose sleep over a man
Reply:you dont love him, let him spend time with your kids, but if you are unhappy, you dont have to be with him
Reply:forget about them both and wait until your kids are 18 and out of the house








stop messing up your kids life and put your kids life first before yours





i feel sorry for the kids also to be in that kind of sititaion
Reply:think about all the reasons he is your ex





and by all means, do NOT let your current bf go... i mean this is the ideal guy in today's world, someone who will love u, care for you, and support u and ur children. do u wanna miss out on that?