I'm confused about love and liking somebody. Having feeling for somebody in general.. Just answer this please.

I (think) love a girl, but I'm sort of confused. After thinking about it, it seems like I do not know if I even like a person. It seems with every person I have ever liked, I do not know if I even liked them. I do not know how to see it I guess. But here is this girl, I tell her I love her all the time and she tells me as well that she loves me. I think I love her but I do not know how to know that I doi love her. I do not understand how I love her. She is great, beautiful, funny, cute, enjoyable to be around, nice, adorable, very caring, caring of herself, etc.... I just do not know if I actually love this girl or what. I guess I could word it as I like to be in love but I never am actually in love. As for the liking a person... I like to like a person but I do not know if I actually like this person. Like I just like or love them because I like to like or love a person. Does any of what I typed make sense? For some reason reading it does not make sense to me. Please answer, I need he

I'm confused about love and liking somebody. Having feeling for somebody in general.. Just answer this please.
It is funny how people think they will just "know" they are in love. When a relationship is new there are all those tingling endorphins and physical attractions, but that is not all that love is about. Long lasting love is a conscience decision, a commitment that you make to a person and they make to you. If this is a relationship that you want to endure, then you need to ask yourself if this is the person you could spend a lifetime with growing together. Or, is this just a very good friend and you enjoy her company. How does she feel about you, is she ready to grow with you. If you make a commitment to love, then you treat this person as your cherished one, they come before all others. You consider this person in all things that you do in the "big life" decisions and how it will impact their life. You decide to commit and to love. You work hard together and grow together. It is not always easy and it is not always smooth, but because of the "commitment" to love you work even harder.
Reply:Google love addiction-it wouldn't hurt to do some research on the subject just to see if you are a love addict. There are some people who just like the "feeling" or "thought" of being in love. If you were ever in love before, you would know it, trust me. You would wish the best for the person you were with and also it would hurt like hell to let them go. You would also go out of your way to do sweet, nice things for her too and make her feel beautiful. The list goes on, that was only the beginning. It may be that you were never really taught real love by whoever raised you.





The first step is acknowledging you have this problem and I am very proud of you for openly admitting it. Now please do your research so you don't end up really breaking someones heart by unintentionally playing with their feelings.
Reply:You are really confused because you are accepting the verbal communication only. Effective communication is that, in which Verbal and Non-Verbal communication should tally. If it is not so, then problems and confusion will occur. Many believe that, in such instances you should accept the non-verbal behaviour and make decisions accordingly. For details visit http://www.easyway2heart.blogspot.com