I still love her and it's killing me...?

Well, me and my best friend got together not too long ago. She claimed that she loved me, and that she never wanted to break up with me.


But it was until the end of eighth grade she told me that she never really loved me and just wants to be friends.


She lied to me the whole time...


But I still love her.


She says she could never love me the way I love her... I dont agree.


What am I to do?


I still love her...


Shes coming over Saturday for my bday...


What am I to do when I still love her?


She says she only loves me a bit...


But not as much as I love her...


I want to be with her.


I want her to use me.


What am I to do?

I still love her and it's killing me...?
I'm so sorry, but there really isn't anything you can do.


You can't make someone love you; being around her is going to make you feel worse - and besides, how can you go on being friends when she lied to you?
Reply:She sounds confused. The best thing for you to do is get some space between you two. I know it sounds hard and undesirable, but you owe it to yourself, to love your self enough to get away from her. I am not saying forever...just give it some time and space. Things will be clearer for both of you! You DESERVE to be loved the way you love! Not half way or partially....find the one who will love you totally....
Reply:Some hard lessons can be experienced at a young age, it will make you stronger, it isn't the end of the world, I thought I was literally going to die from a broken heart back in my teens, I lived, and so will you.
Reply:You need to first love yourself. You can't expect to find love in another if you don't first love yourself. You are still very young so trust me you WILL get over it.


Here is also a way to get over it quicker. If you are able to control your dreams, do this, or induce a dream where you will meet up with your friend. Tell her what needs to be said and that you are over her and maybe give her a hug and when you wake up you will feel much better and will accept her leaving you. Dreams are powerful, and this technique has been used by various people who faced more painful situations than you, like losing a loved one but got over it by healing dreams. Try it, and maybe check out this book in the source:

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