Love hurts I need help.?

okay theres this guy named james i fell in-love with back in October of 2005 he has been so mean to me ever since me and his ex-girlfriend Brittany became so called friends.


I promised him twice that I would stop talking to her but I didn’t only because me and her had so much in common about him.


He says he is mean to me cuz I deserve it for lieing.


But then Yet I did stop talking to her and he kept up his mean=ness.


He started to be nice but mean at the sametime.


It didn’t really bother me because I thought as long as I had him there with me and know he wasn’t mad at me things would be okay maybe.





He is my ex-boyfriend we were together like last year He is also my best friends brother but I knew him before I knew her and we were togther before we even became best friends


I lost my Virginty to him


He can tell me the most sweatest things and I believe him cuz I cant help it im in-love..


but we broke up and i never came back to him cuz i was stupid and thought that he hated me.


which he didnt.


then so he had no choice but to go back to this chick brittany.


he ended up falling in-love with her.


well i messed up everything by haveing sex with his bestfriend adam which was toatlly a mistake i was drunk and dumb and i was pissed off at him and thought that he didnt care anymore.


Since then I regret drinking.


Im not a slut.


Just letting you know.


it turns out he did care about me and his feelings completely changed.


He wasn’t in-love with that girl Brittany when this happen (so he says).


But he was going out with her.


this happend back in february well now since then me and him just been like whatever.


he cheated on brittany like 4 or 6 times with me.


I know its wrong but we were always drunk and he just came to me.


which is messed up but yeah....


There was times we were close and we were sober and it meant the world to me.


well anyway that chick got tired of what he was doing and they've been off and on.


he says its my fault he feel in-love with her and he wishes he never did.


and im like wtf!!!!.


well they haven't been together for two months and ofcourse me being a dummy is love struck over him.


this past month me and him have been sooo close.


and i really did believe he was getting over her.


something just happened yesterday between brittany and her boyfriend Aaron so she just came back crawling to james yesterday.





and like me dumb did it with james the other night we were sober and he said he wouldn‘t use me.


So later on we went upstairs to his room and I said you used me I know you did and He said I didn’t stop saying that I promise and he was holding me.


and now my feeling just went crazy when i saw her there yesterday.


well yeah she came over to his house yesterday and yeah i was soooo pissed.


then me and my friends like want beat her up were planing on doing it later tonite but yeah james found out lastnight and he was like wtf ally don’t eff with my girlfriend and i was like dude just 2 days ago everything was goin good and you didnt care if I beat her up or not. so now he is being all stupid and he admits to being an asshole to me.


and he was like you know im an asshole.





I realized getting in a fight wont resolve anything.


She is so mean to him and I hate it.


I know he can do better.


But some people arre attracted to those who are mean.


Like he is to her and I am to him.


I don’t know what to do.


Im seriously don’t want to do anything stupid.


Im in-love and I cant control it.


I need help or advice Please someone.

Love hurts I need help.?
Damn, can you keep your life to a minimum.
Reply:damn, u acutally do have time to read that long of a question.


I wonder who is going to read that?
Reply:Damn, can you keep your life to a minimum? Deal with this urself.
Reply:Yeah, love hurts. I wouldn't go beating Brittney up though. That could come back to haunt you. How old are you? You can get into some serious trouble. Especially if there is a whole group of you. Things could get out of control and you could end up killing her or something. If you're old enough to be having sex, you're old enough to be arrested for assault and/or suspended from school. Or this chick could do the same thing and get her friends rounded up and kill you.


I understand you're in a tough situation. The guy you love is going around and being an ***. But I suggest you talk with him about it. If he can't promise he won't go back to her, you should consider breaking up with him. I know it's sooo hard. But if he keeps hurting you like that, things are just going to get worse. Get him to promise he won't talk to her again and if he does, you're done. You deserve better. You deserve someone who will think about you only and wants only for you to be happy.
Reply:your not in love ur crazy. or you have nothing better to do than make up 90210 stories
Reply:wow very long well break up with him
Reply:It would be in your best intersest to get out of that situation. It is apparent that he is going to do as he pleases whether it hurts you or not. Surely you care more for yourself than to be treated so badly when there is no reason to be. Guys come and go, the respect and love you have for yourself forever remain. You must choose what kind of person you are going to be.

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