I love a girl and i wish to marry her. But there are 1 more girl who loves me? what to do?

The girl who loves me is my friend but i don't know how she falled in my love now she loves me too much and i have already told her abt me that i love other girl and will marry with her, still she loves me..i like that girl but as a very good friend she has same qualities as my loved girl.. now tell me what should i do... she knew everything but love me too....and her lolve for seems too real not as attrection only!!!!!!!

I love a girl and i wish to marry her. But there are 1 more girl who loves me? what to do?
How do you feel when you think about both of them.....


You say you want to marry one.... sounds like to me you have already made your mind up..... apart of life is getting hurt, you have to do what is going to make you happy, either way you will end up with one of them hurt....





sounds like you have a tough decision to make, better make it soon before it goes on too long.





Merry Christmas!
Reply:Based on this question, I'd say you arent ready for marriage yet.
Reply:Does Ur 'First girl' love U as well ???


Is she interested in marrying U too ?????


Know it first........!!!


Next things Next .....





But from Ur expressions, it appears that the other girl too is a sincere lover of Yours !!!!!!


And I presume, U will be happier with 'this' Second Girl...!!!!


But, everything is UP TO YOU ...!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:just try to find out if da girl u like would go out wit chu and if dat don't work then go wit da other girl
Reply:What an immature question ! DO you think marriages are through oneway love ? Ofcourse it should be mutual love. You didn't mention whether the first girl also loves you or not. If yes then marry the first girl.
Reply:very hard to understand what you are saying i think you need


to learn to spell before asking any more questions


as to the girls , dont rush into any thing if you are not sure.


when you know where your heart lies then you will know the answer your self with out asking for help, its easy to marry but harder to divorce


take a break away from both of them and your heart should tell you which one you miss the most
Reply:dude you are the one whos gotta decide whom you love and whom you are going to marry,just stay with the one you are committed to,thats it and whom you love.
Reply:Do the girl U love, loves U too? If yes and u love her too then u go for her. A one sided love is not sustainable, in long terms. Make her understand that U can not ditch that other girl and help her (ur friend) come out of this situation.
Reply:What do you do?... You GROW UP... you are a big boy now... so you can make up your OWN mind... can't you?
Reply:You have to go with the one you love , I did and the guy that was in love with me is still my Friend over 20 years later and he even named his three children after me. We are friends til the end, good luck.
Reply:Sounds to me as if you aren't sure. Your first statement was I love and want to marry this girl. . it should have ended there if you truly believe this is the ONLY woman for you. The fact that you're even questioning the other one is a sign maybe you're not as sure as you think you are. . .hmm . . . maybe you need to slow up a bit.
Reply:There is an old Rock'n'Roll song that says it best...


You gotta make up your mind...say yes to one, and leave the other behind...it's not awful easy, and not awful kind, but you know you gotta make up your mind...





Good luck to you!!
Reply:shut eye and ear
Reply:yu should marry the girl yu love!!!!!!
Reply:you have to follow your heart. you need to break off the relationship with your friend because, by her having feelings for you, that can cause a strain in your relationship with the girl you love. keeping her around will only complicate things. believe me i know from experience
Reply:you have to answer this yourself...............
Reply:First, finish 7th grade Language Arts. I mean really try to pass the class this time, then you can follow your heart!





Good luck!
Reply:onli u can make the choice





u have to find a day relax ur mind and think over it carefully who u really wan to be with





if u had to tell her that u do not love her and ask her to give up on u





tell her straight although that may sound cruel
Reply:what is wrong with your grammar??????? ithink the girl you love is tyhe one you should marry.... tell yourr friend that thinks she loves you that we have known each other for a while and i think that you loving me is a faze from you tinking of you as a friend and a soulmate...... your friend might be confused from seeing you asa brother and a lover.... most friends from different sex go through this but you pick who you love and want to spend your life with.....
Reply:none of these peeople know wat they are talking about ................








this is wat i would do





1. i would decide who u truely like ..


2. if she is your friend i think she would truley understand that you love this girl and that u should be friends????





and you poeple are real mature ....not








if you have any ? just message me
Reply:Better to get married to the girl who loves you.
Reply:I would go with the friend you know a lot about her already and know what she likes and her personality it is perfect
Reply:you need to learn how to type cause that didnt make any sence.





just go get married. there is nothing else you can do for your friend. if you dont love her and she has no chance with you then your doing her a favor by getting married beacuse now she will know that she has no chance left and she wont spend the rest of her life hoping that youll fall in love with her. you might loose your friendship but in thats what its going to take.
Reply:think bout it carefully, who is it that u want?





would u rather marry the one you love(she doesnt love you back) OR would you rather marry the one who loves you(you love her as a friend/you guys got special bond,etc)?





good luck and make the right choice.
Reply:merry the 1 you love,because you wont be able 2 spend your life with some1 you dont love only because she loves you,remember 2 "live your life like a true star"
Reply:im sorry but that is a decision you will have to make on your own. i know i wouldnt want to misinform you on what to do because it is a life changing decision. i am sure whatever way you go, you will do fine.
Reply:follow your heart and choose the best at the same time
Reply:hmm this is a hard one... well if you love the one girl whom you wish to marry then what i say is marry her for she must also love you I dont think this other girl will be there for you once you get marryed most girls act like that...untill you get marryed then its like.."mhm that's old news " so thats my advise to you
Reply:You are a lucky person, but the decision you have to make is very difficult. You need to look at this carefully, and follow your heart. Think of the one you want to be with, who do you think of first thing in the morning and last thing at night. Who do you miss most when they are not around, who loves you dearly, and who do you love dearly. You have to realise that you will have to hurt one person, and sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind. Good luck
Reply:you gotta decide now before you make a choice
Reply:Don't ever marry. That's my advice. Pump 'em, dump 'em and move on.