Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Love at 15?

My freinds would always say they love their girlfriend and I would just laugh thinking "the only thing you love is making out with her". Anyway I met a girl 1 1/2 years ago. From the moment I met her I loved talking to her and just being around her. But I was still pretty sure she liked me as nothing more than a friend. In the past six months I realized I had felt somethign that I had never felt before. Remeber I used to not think and still question whether a 15 year old can be in love. But I think I have felt the closest thing i have ever felt to love. Its so different than any other crush I've had. I know its probably just puppy love but for some reason I feel a spark of doubt inside me. Mostly because I continue to feel the same way about her even though she doesn't feel that way about me. I know its not lust and I know its more than a crush but I don't think im silly enough to call it love. maybe i have just begun to realize that whats important goes so far beyond how a girl looks.

Love at 15?
awww thats so sweet..... congradulations... thats not really a question though.........the person on the phone with me says "make a move" (lol)
Reply:Truth be told a 15 year old cant spell love. It is really too early to have to deal with those responsibilities. Education and you're health are the most important thing at this age. I would wait until you're done high school, and in college, before you start dating.
Reply:If you are able to love as in a family member, a friend, why not a girl? As long as you know the true definate difference between love and anything minimal to it. If you care about her and value her like you would a family member or friend, if she IS your best friend then you can love her. You'll grow eventually and you'll know then, but you can know it now too as long as you can AT LEAST love her like a best friend. You know what? I'm sixteen. And my boyfriend is 15. He's so mature I forget he's so young. But I love him I do. Even if I know it's not likely we'll last, I value him and cherish him because we've experienced a world of things together and we've stood by each other and we care about each other. And that's love.
Reply:it is more important--what goies far beyond how a girl looks. IT is their heart. You may like her, but not love her. You can't truly love someone til you've known them for a while.


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