I love this guy...he loved me, but he says his love died! i cant get over him. HELP!?

im in love with this guy who i dated for 5 months. he loved me so much and im sure his love was genuine. however we had a lot of problems in our relationship due to my parents thinking he wasnt the right guy for me. he just mailed me one day and broke up with me cause he said his love died. i dont know what to do because i still love him very much, possibly more than i did. he said he still wants to remain friends and its possible we could have a relationship later on. i really want him to love me again...any tips?

I love this guy...he loved me, but he says his love died! i cant get over him. HELP!?
OMG! We're in the exact same situation! Subsitute the 5 months for 4 months and parents for friends but yeah, the exact same situation...a few weeks ago, I would have advised you to find a new guy and this would ease or rid you of your love for this guy, but I've tried that and my love for the guy who said his love died for me took over...My advice? Stay away from the boy you love, that's how I cope, because then I am able to practise living without him by my side, TRUST me I KNOW the difficulty doing that but if you muck around with your friends and that it really takes your mind off it...I know what it's like to be grieving because the person you love so so much doesn't love you back, but you have to try and make sure they do the grovelling, not you. Finding a new guy would make the guy you love jealous if he still has a chance of loving you again ((obviously I'm not encouraging you to use someone)), but again I know how hard this is to do, but it's effective in finding out if there's still something there, as I have tried out this experiment before ((just by chatting up a random guy who had virtually no feelings for me because he hardly knew me)) and I discovered that in fact the boy I love does not have any feelings left for me :'( But it is an effective way to find out, I hope if you try it that it will turn out to be a happy ending and he'll still love you deep down.
Reply:Im experiencing a similar thing here..... my ex had to dump me coz of his parents.... for some stupid reason.


But I too still loves him and still hope dat he wud return someday. It's been 07 months but I havent given up. I believe dat he still loves me too.... like u do....


Ofcourse as girls we have a great opportunity to cry but guys they just cant do dat even they bears everything silently and acts very usual. Think about it...


ur ex I suppose loves u a lot %26amp; he hopes for da best for u... not for him doing all these for ur parents


If ur love is tru %26amp; real u shud hav da ability to stay for him....


It may take days months or years


So just be gud friends %26amp; dont let him go....


Kno its hard but sumtime life gives us trials like this


Have Hope and KIT


All da Best!


Hope hell be urs forever
Reply:ok well if he loved you he would have worked it out with you. i remember when my family hated my ex and we didnt care and triend to make it work anywayz, so its probably not because ur parents dont like him. if he said his love died then usually u cant do anything about it. i would move on and go out and if he sees u doing this he may want to be with u again. guys cant stand to see us have fun after a break up unless they really dont care anymore. so do u girl and see if he comes around.
Reply:give it time, because you'll both gain perspective on each other. just keep in touch and hang out.
Reply:Well stay cool... tell him u love him but dont expect him to love u too.. and then let it flow as it does.. on its own... u have done ur work .. how let God take care of the rest...
Reply:hey,the most practical thing to do would be to go and ask him y his love for u has died!,tell him u still love him!


if he says he is over u because he really doesn't have any love for u anymore than its time tro move on!!


but if he happens to say its bcoz of ur parents that he lost his patience than ,if he does love u still, then make up !





u don't need ur parents to decide if he is good for u , if he is a truly good person ,then u go for him girl!!!!!!!!
Reply:Get over him, If he ever loved you he'd have been loyal.

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