Love this sir very much and this is not a crush.People say i am too young or it is a crush but it is not i tr?

" I love a man who is 13-14years older than me,i am loving this man from 6 years and he don't know that i love him. I also don't know his feelings for me , I am a 10th standard student,and this man is my tution and schools sir.He pays some special care for me,,He is unmarried their are many other sir who are more handsome than him and cares about me more.But I love this sir very much.It is not an attraction as first i and an boy was having love but he went from here after that many boys proposed me but i love this sir very much and this is not a crush.People say i am too young or it is a crush but it is not i truly love him.This year i am leaving this school and may not have any relation with himafter that.So i want to express my feelings tohim,but how i don't know.Plz help me!"

Love this sir very much and this is not a crush.People say i am too young or it is a crush but it is not i tr?
all you know how you feel. but the way you call him sir and not your boyfriend or even your friend, i would suggest that it could be just an infactuation and not real love. and if you're younger than 16, i'd say in all honest you are too young to know what real love is.
Reply:You can tell him how much he has meant to you and you appreciate all the extra attention he has paid you.





You can't get involved it may cost him is job. You could let him know that after you leave school you would like to continue to keep in touch as a friend and maybe something more.





This way your cards are on the table. Don't be hurt if he doesn't look at you in the same way. I hope your friendship can continue.
Reply:if you are in tenth grade then isant it illegal to be with a man 14 years older?
Reply:I am sorry to say, but it is impossible to truly love someone unless you really know them. You have to live with them, experience life with them. You are infatuated with this man, not in love. You are too young to know you are in love because you are not the full person you will be someday. You have much growing to do. Life will mold your personality for years to come. You ask for help yet deny the obvious answer, which is you are too young to know the difference between a crush and love.
Reply:I do believe that you have a crush on this man - but you should not act on it YET. Should you act and he does something you could lose him his job and respectability. Wait until you are at least 18 years old and then let him know how you feel and he can act on this then and not feel threatened!@
Reply:Ooh my dear, remember this 'first things first' you're too young, but make sure that you complete your studies and tell him that its important to complete your studies first. You can get married in future but not now and this is only if he loves you the way you love him.
Reply:age has nothing to do with love if it is Victorian/platonic love.but once sex comes in age difference does matter and also in maturity levels there is bound to be a gulf if the age difference is too much
Reply:Nooooooooo, it's ok honey, as long as you love the person.