Is love tangible?

Do you think that love may be just a misconception?


I had this boyfriend that broke up with me nearly a year ago. We were together for a year, and had exchanged "I Love You"s about halfway through the relationship.The phrase was never overused, and I truly believe that I loved him, and still do. During the breakup, and even months after, I told him I truly love him and want to be with him. His reaction was to tell me that I did not know what I was talking about, and love is not real. He said it's just a chemical in our brain that tricks us.


I didn't believe in this then, and I don't believe in it now.


He has a new girlfriend that he is really into, but we still talk and hang out as friends. In my mind, I truly do still love him, and I always have. I would never tell him again that I love him because he made me feel like such a fool.


Do any of you also believe that love is not tangible and is just a misconception? And please explain why you think this way.

Is love tangible?
Love is not a misconception, just ask yourself: does your mother love you? THAT is the ULTIMATE meaning of TRUE LOVE.





You love a person, yes, is TANGIBLE, because not only changes your moods, but it also makes you ACT and REACT on that feeling, wheter you like it or not, willing or unwillingly. Perhaps he DIDN'T get to know what love is, at least, not with you. But you ARE sure you do. If you have pride high enough not to tell him that ever again (and personally I don't think he deserves it) is FINE.


Now, relationship, that's another thing. One person can have a HUGE crush on anyone, and that is no different for it is real love. But is not the same a person can feel for their significant other, and interaction and relationship put love on a totally different light, and it STILL is love. You can break up and never get over that person, and that is still love.


Bottom line: what do you need to prove, to him, or to anyone for that matter? The tangibility of love is no other but this: YOU know YOU ARE IN LOVE. If you have any doubts, then you are not.
Reply:Love is very real. Love is more than just some chemical in your brain. Love is a very special feeling. And it's alright to love people in your past. Every experience we have in life is meant to shape us and define us and make us who we are meant to be.
Reply:Love is real.. that much i can tell u..
Reply:love is not tangible because the definition of tangible is the ability to be touched physically





i believe that love is real because how else could people stay married their whole lives