LOVE? What does it seem like to you?

Is this love?





I guess I just dont know what love feels like....In past relationships I assumed that jealousy was love. I was jealous and scared that my bf was going to leave so "I loved him" I cared for him. Now I have no need to be jealous and I dont know if it is love or not.





Attraction - Sex more than 5 times a week?


Respect for one another


Commitment - Both committed to one another.


Comfort - I am very comfortable when I am around him. He makes me feel safe


Us time - I aswell as him enjoy spending time alone. We are going away for 3 nights for New Years tomorrow :)


Humour - He makes me laugh constantly





Is this love?





The only downfall is that I analyze everything about him cause I am having my doubts about what love feels like...I know it is different for everyone but is this worth holding on 2?





I dont want anyone else ever touching me. I am the type of person than can be happy w/out anyone in my life so I cant say that I woudnt be happy if i didnt have him.

LOVE? What does it seem like to you?
I wish I knew how long you have been together. All the things you mention above could be love, you need to quit with the doubts and trying to figure out what love is suppose to feel like.


If you got all the above things just stop worrying about it, enjoy it and see where it goes.


I also wish I knew how old you are, I'm over 40 but can't tell you what it actually feels like.
Reply:love is some thing u can't explain u just have to feel it , yeah i am jealous every body feels jealous when they see their partner can get attentions or ppl are after 'em , in one hand it is love cos u don't wanna share ur man with some one else and another hand u can call it selfish ...i am selfish cos i don't want my man to get a better gurl cos i love him i am selfish cos i don't want him to look at a GURl doesn't matter shes pretty or ugly just becos i love him don't wanna share him with some one else...but then again i guess if u love some one so badly (like a crazy) whether u push that person to be with you OR let him/her go to have a better life and u would never forget that person see honey it all depends on person to person
Reply:I too used to think that jealousy and turmoil meant love but it doesn't. Love is more laid back and calm as you have explained above. I know its hard to get used to that fact but what did the jealousy and turmoil ever bring you ? Nothing but heartache. Can that possibly be love ?