Love has an age limit??

All you hear when your my age 14 is that your to young for love, you dont know what love is, you wont know until your older, when really you feel like your in love, you love peopel and hate people, what do you think about love and age , and i dont mean im in love with a boy i mean im in love with people,like my 2nd family, my "little sister"(no blood relation) just people that im with alot and that have impacted my life, no one that would even count as a man or bf

Love has an age limit??
well im 16 and sometimes wat people say is true but sometimes its not. for example my little sisters thinks she in love with some guy and wants to have sex with him.... she couldnt be more wrong.. i know her and she does love him but at the same times i used to think i loved a guy until i really did fall in love. i just new that it was different and took a chance but it turns out i was rite and weve been 2gether 2 years n could be happier....love is love an noone can tell u any different
Reply:There is no age limit, they honestly don't know what goes through your head so they don't know. Love...
Reply:My aunt always told me that when you're in love its the only time in your life when you can't fully explain how you feel about the person.
Reply:I do not understand why people say that. Nobody has a clue what love is because everyone has a different meaning to it. There are no age limits with it and there are no boundaries. It is just a feeling that you have never felt before. Once when I saw in sixth grade I came home and said, "I'm in love! I'm in love! I'm in love!" My mom said, "You are too young to know what love is." Well I am not. I still love that boy, and I know I always will. It is like loving your parents. You never want to leave him, and you will never get over it. No one is too young for love...no one.
Reply:theres no age limit for love...unless its about a guy or boyfriend and that wont happen until you hit puberty.
Reply:love has absolutely no age limits. whoever told you that is either crazy, or [more likely] they're trying to liken love and sex. most people think that a person should be in love before they have sex so it is very possible that whoever told you that was trying to keep you safe in that way. i'm fourteen and i love alot of people in the way you're talking about. i do believe i'm still trying to figure out completely what love is, but i have a pretty good idea. i think alot of people don't have any idea what love is, so they try to say "you'll only know when you're older"....it's a grown-up kind of a thing"...."you're too young to know what love is" in order to push the subject away and not deal with it. when in reality, most of them are probably scared....scared of never falling in love....scared of never truely finding out what love is...scared of kids knowing something they don't. kids and especially teenagers are smarter than they're given credit for. just find out what you believe. and whatever you do, never give up on love...no matter how much you're hurt because of it.
Reply:Love is a life-long learning process. It's just like any other learning process- you think you know it all, then you make a mistake, and (hopefully) learn something new from it. Then the process just repeats itself all over again. I think this is true of all forms of love- platonic, romantic, family, compassion, faith, etc. Listen to your parents and older sisters/brothers; they've been where you are and lived through what you're going through, even if in a different way. Just because you don't know it all doesn't mean you can't appreciate what you have, either, though. =)
Reply:Speaking as an older guy...





Love is love. You can love any time, any age. The problem is love vs. reality. This is usually what your parents are trying to tell you about...





First - males of any age, but teenage boys and young men especially, want sex. (All the time). They will say anything and do anything to get it. When you are young, you may have trouble seeing through the lies and con jobs. It's a nasty world out there. Even older women fall for some real losers with really good lines. (To be fair, there are some real sneaky women out there too... But rarely to get sex. They usually try to take the guy for material goods.)





Secondly, even the honest guys when they're that young, may not have thought things through. They may say they love you, but if an opportunity happens, they may jump into bed with someone else.





Or maybe, they don't understand commitment. Love means openness and sharing. Some people are still greedy - they'll say they love you, but given the choice between spending their money on themselves or a gift for you, they won't pick you. That's not maturity. Some people are mature at 12, some are still not mature at 50. Your maturity comes in recognizing how mature they are.





Then there's reality. You may say you love him. Maybe you really do. When you actually live with someone, and have to pick up their dirty underwear or clean the dishes, that's different from dating twice a week. Can you decide what to do with household money without fighting? Can you let him go out with his friends? Will he let you? People change as they get older. What may have been attractive at 14 may not be cute or funny any more, 10 years later.





Also, there's the recognition that tough decisions have to be made, sacrifices for the future - should you split for 8 months at a time to get a college education so that you can make something of your lives, or will one of demand that the other drop out?





And, where do you see yourself in 30 years? Will you wake up some day to realize you're an educated teacher or executive married to a warehouse worker who likes to bowl and drink beer every night? How compatible are you, really?





All parents want to do is stop you from jumping into something too deep that you may regret later on. At 14, you'll have to face the Dipweed in high school for 4 years if you turn out to be wrong about him. And he'll always nudge his friends and chuckle - "I was the first to doink her, and she really moaned about it..."





Love is blind - maturity is the ability to help it see without crushing it.
Reply:That is stupid! I know adults say that! There are no age limits, once you see a boy you think thats right for you, you love them, and doesn't matter what age, I had my first crush at 6, now look at me now! I hate when people think you're too young for love, usually it's parents, but it can be other adults too, just because they didn't start their love at 14, doesn't mean you're too young!
Reply:I think one off the main reasons that someone may tell a teenager that they are too young to know what love is may be because many young people tend to confuse infatuation and lust for love. Not all teenagers do this but it is not uncommon. When you love someone there has to be mutual respect and understanding and many teenagers and young adults do not have a real grasp on these things. Bear in mind though that some teenagers and young adult are more mature and are able to honestly love, I wish everyone could love unselfishly rather than only when it is convenient. Best of luck to you.
Reply:Love has NO age limits....love knows no boundaries.
Reply:When I was 14 I fell in love. I'm 19 and still with the guy. You can fall in love with anyone at any age. You know what love is everyone does....
Reply:Love has no age limits. Every age knows love. Babies, toddlers, tweens, teens, and adults! When you give birth to a child, you're basically signing a contract that says, "I will do anything in my power to keep this child loved and cared for, whether it be by me or by adoption. I promise this child will be loved and feel loved."


Now, babies experience love every day. Their parents love them, and they love their parents. Yes, the baby has no way of verbalizing this feeling until it grows a bit older, but that doesn't mean that this precious angel doesn't know what love is.


Toddlers know what love is. Once your child gets to be a toddler, aren't they saying to you, "I love you, Mommy. I love you, Daddy." Gosh, some kids don't even want to leave, because they'll miss you too much!


Love is universal. From the moment you're born, you know what love is.
Reply:Whenever I was little and I loved something adults would always tell me that I was too young for love but then I began to understand love. I don't mean like a definition because you can't really define something like love but I knew what it truly felt like. Now I am 15 which doesn't seem too old but I do love some people and no adult can tell me that I am too young for it. So I think that they should just try to understand and don't let them tell you that you are too young because love has no boundaries.
Reply:NO what kind of parent are you i have a daughter and she as a boyfriend and she is about to be 12yrs some let him be
Reply:Well first of all being in love with someone is completly different than loving someone. when u love someone it means u dont have romantic feelings towards them u just have the feeling of love, like the ones u feel towards a brother, or sister or a parent. but when u are in love with someone that measn its a really deep and intense affection u feel for that other person and the person isnt someone in ur family and the feeling should feel different. and no there isnt an age limit but there is a thin line where u need to be more mature and know how u feel. if u notice teens may think that they are experiencing love but really isnt it could just be a strong sense of infatuation that teens go through all the time. so i think there isnt a certain age limit, but a line that u need to pass, and most likely it is maturity. if u arent mature enough u dont know what ur feeling is actually love but whne u actually know how to control and depict those feelings thats when u are capable of the most intense and affectionate love.
Reply:there isn't a limit for love! EVER!

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