Love? Who do you choose?

NUMBER 1: Do you choose the one you love with all your heart, the one that you feel like you can't live without. The one who hurt you once, but you love him unconditionally. The one that his family %26amp; friends say that you are the "perfect" match. The one who has improved his way of living. Who really loves you and actually means it when he says it. He does not want you to change, he loves you for who you are. When you kiss him you feel magic, wen you stare into his eyes you feel want - I need you, I want you, your my true love. Although most people do not want you with him... They say hes bad?





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NUMBER 2: The man who your parents want for you, even though they say he needs to become "Christian" to be perfect. Your best friend for 6 years, who you love and care about. But it's not the same. The one who is goal orientated, full of passion, doing something for his life, but You don't want to hurt him, hes you best friend and love. He wants you to change physically-%26gt; but never tells you?

Love? Who do you choose?
I apologize but i cannot pick a number. Love is truly a difficult element of life to balance and it's trying to find that balance that you learn what is best for you. Trial and error is the only way your heart will speak to you, you can't just think or talk about it all the time you just have to take a leap of faith and know yourself enough to know that the decision you've chosen is the one that completes you. I will say that when people start to get involved with your decision making you lose sight of what you want in a partner. It's one thing for someone to give you advice or an opinion but it's another thing when all they do is rant and rave about how good or bad that person is for you because when they start to do that they start to control your psyche. I myself am a huge believer of following the heart because it's unpredictable and doesn't second guess itself. To balance both heart and brain will be something no one will ever master because we learn new things (good and bad) from both of them every single day of our lives. As for "true love" I'm not a believer in it. I do believe that the only "true love" is love for yourself. Once you master that anyone around you will be attracted to your aura as long as you carry yourself in a respectable way. Also remember that time doesn't matter it's what you do with it that counts for something.





The first NUMBER 1 option seems to be what your leaning towards i think. I just hope he knows that when you hurt a woman she may forgive you but she will never forget and sometimes that can lead to resentment and anger if the connection is made once again.





In that last sentence in NUMBER 2 option, that is insecurity on your part until you actually come out and ask him point blank because all that is is an assumption. You never know what one thinks until you ask but if your right, personally that's a breaker for me because I would not put up with that kind of disrespect we all deserve respect as long as we give it.





Please keep in mind that these are 2 men out of thousands in your area. Sometimes it's best to step back and take a fresh look at what the world has to offer which could be NUMBER 3 option.