Friday, April 16, 2010

Which kind of LOVE is more successful for the ENTIRE LIFE SPAN?

Is the love which comes at the instance when we see the partner or the love which starts as friendship and understanding the deep inner feelings and at the end loving without reason.





Is the love can start with friendship or is the love must start with love only?





Please everyone who reads express ur true feelings...pls

Which kind of LOVE is more successful for the ENTIRE LIFE SPAN?
I don't know if this will be a complete answer, but from scientific literature, there appears to be three fairly distinct stages that love (at least romantic love) goes through as measured by certain biological indicators: Lust, Attraction, Attachment.





The deeply intense love felt during the attraction phase (first six months or so) does not appear to be able to be sustainable. Does this mean that a couple that has been together for two months and cannot keep the other out of their thoughts is more in love than the couple who just celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary? Absolutely not. Just that love changes and looks different over time.





As for the age old question as to whether or not it is preferable to fall in love with a friend, or somebody you were immediately attracted to...the answer is that, over time, it really makes no difference how the relationship evolved, both paths are valid. With that said, I would venture to guess that a relationship that has a larger number of sustainable factors (compatibility, common interests, companionship) is more likely to last beyond the six month attraction phase. After this time, partners no longer find the annoying habits of the others cute and are therefore harder to ignore and easier to resent.





Hope this helps.
Reply:The type of love,you are talking about it just happens anytime doesn't see the place, time, age, race anything no matter u love after friendship or within one second just click their hearts and feel each other..no matter who is that...they love for what they are..as they are.n..accept eachother sameway they are...Love is just for giving, never expect anything to have from the one whom you love...
Reply:A love which does not expect anything in return
Reply:Love may start with friendship and also from love it depends upon our feelings and understanding but when whenever we start loving we should always be truthful in our love and if have the habit of asking unwanted questins in a doubtful way to your lover because it a big painkiller of our love and also our life.
Reply:I would say the love which starts as friendship and understanding the deep inner feelings and at the end loving without reason is better. This is better than just infatuation which is love whcih comes at the instance...Love can start with friendship absolutely..and it can start with love too...


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