I love him but is it even worth it?? i need advice :(?

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. and i love him very much...he knows that and i know he loves me. We took a small break couple of months ago and now we're back together. The problem is, he used to be very sweet and charming, and very open about how he feels...now that we're back again he seem very different from the guy i fell in love with 2 years ago. He doesnt really show affection anymore, he doesnt want me saying i love you all the time now, i think we used to be the sweetest couple ever and i love it that way...when we spend hours on the phone just letting eachother know how much we love eachother and planning our furture. He doesnt even do that anymore, he doesnt want me to be all sweet, he wants be to act tough and not act like the way we used to anymore...i really dont like how we are now but i really love him but he really change. i dont get him anymore and its tearing me apart! I miss the old him and I want that back. you think its worth to stay? :(

I love him but is it even worth it?? i need advice :(?
ya know? that one is hard. i have had the same situation. i say just let him know that you love him.


let me imagine u really fast:


youu lovee him alotttttt.


you know he loves youu.








i do say "stayy"


i think that's the best choice(:
Reply:No wonder he wants to run, you sound so clingy its even boring to hear even for a girl! Stop whining and give him space to breathe you sound so boring and demanding and telling sm1 u love him all the time gets boring and it's annoying.





I'm sure he met a cooler girl who doesn't whine like you do. So find sm1 who likes to hear the pukey "i love u" ALL the time. *barf*. You sound too needy and boys hate that and even girls like me hate seeing needy girls who whine all the time. Enjoy love and take it as it comes and if you don't like the way he is now then move on cos he won't be what you want him to be. You can't expect to stay the same all the time and do the things you did, times change people change feelings change as well. If you do the same ALL the time then it gets boring. Be creative and stop whining. Good luck. :-)
Reply:It gets really old. There is no reason to have to express your love every moment of the day, he probably really like the break from clingy i love you stuff.





i love my husband, but i don't hang on him, and text him and call him and just annoy him with my i love you's...





we used to be like this too, but the unspoken love it stronger than just saying it.
Reply:often people change. if he isn't being good to you it may be time to move on.
Reply:If you guys used to share things and be open to each other, how come you're posting this on yahoo answers and not telling your boyfriend? Maybe if you started to open up to him about yourself after the break he'll begin to relax and be comfortable around you again. However, if you think you've tried to get him to talk and be how he was before and it's not changing, I'd say move on. Don't waste your time, you never know when another guy is going to walk into your life. Someone better than him (:
Reply:Tell him how you feel, and if he doesn't care then leave him. Keep in mind that all couples go through what you are going through. Couples change from being lovey dovey into routine. It's part of the relationship process, don't stress it unless he's being a jerk or truly not treating you right.
Reply:you can take the chance that it may just be a phase or u can find some 1 new who u know and trust
Reply:Talk to him see what he says


But if he's changed you sure you still love him or just the idea of him %26amp; he used to be?
Reply:First of all what was the reason for the 2 months break? I mean was it mutual or was it due to some problem.





If it was due to some issue between you two, then may be all the words exchanged has made him change. Sometimes in anger we say off many things which might hurt the other person. Your BF might have taken those words seriously. Like you might have told him that you are not being a man and handling things yourself, so may be trying to be tough now.





If it was mutual then there may be some issue bothering him. Or may be he is looking for something.





Lastly you have answered your own question. As you love him more then other things and want to be with him then why you want to split from him?
Reply:tell him your feeling.try to go back to your normal life ,if it doesn't work .begin anew life .this is my opinion.i have come across a website which named seniorwoo..com .many people are finding their suit people .it may help you.good luck
Reply:Well may his feelings have changed the time you've been appart from each other ... Why don't you try talking to him ? Then you'll see if he still loves you and you'll decide if you'll stay with him ...
Reply:Truly, you never loved each other. More to claim loving each other, more to convey that you do not. Love does not need assurance every time, every second that how much one loves other. It was expected end of such love like this.
Reply:i think 2 yrs is enough he prolly found someone else sorry to say but i suggest u break it off if he would to be the speical one he would of never changed
Reply:where have i heard this before? oh yeah from me.....dont waste anymore of your time. he's changed, not worth being drug around. and he's probably cheated. sorry to say.
Reply:it's up to you..


I think he have another girlfriend yet..


He is playboy
Reply:I think he already has another one fresh like you was. So you need to give up!!
Reply:Was it a joint decision to have your break?





Sounds to me like he's still hurting...... love is one thing but without communication it just doesn't work %26amp; yes, that goes both ways.





Only time will give you the answer if he isnt open about how he feels %26amp; you're willing to give it a go.





Hope it works out for you

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