Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Love lust??

ive been going out with my boyfriend for 3 nearly 4 months. hes 15 and im 14. we tell eachother we love eachother all the time, and in person. weve pashed and kissed but thats all. he respects me completly and i love him completly. he dont want us to do anything unless i ask because he doesnt want to hurt me. i love his company and i love how he makes me feel. we can talk for hours non-stop and i miss him like crazy (he lives about 1.5 hours away from me). i trust him totally and he trusts me as well. he loves me back. most people say that we are to young to be in love,





is there an age limit or something? or is it just adults thinking that we cant be in love because we are so young?








please help me





xx livii

Love lust??
No one is too young to feel love :)





But...you are too young to understand a true "relationship" based on love. The commitment. The responsibility. The repercussions.





This is the time of life when you are starting to learn what caring about someone special is all about. Don't ruin it at your age by even considering sex. That should come much later.





I will never forget the young girl I "loved" at your age. It will always be special, but it was not the same love I came to realize as I grew older. At your age you like what you feel now and can't wait for tomorrow. I remember it well :) But, as school went on, so did our lives and they way we viewed relationships. Friends forever, but never meant to be a lifetime relationship. We both met a few others along the way before deciding on that one person we could see ourselves spending our whole life with. That love involved much more than you can imagine now. That love had many more responsibility than you realize now. They aren't things one can teach you. You learn them in the process of growing older and experiencing life.





Don't be in a hurry and don't get in over your head. Enjoy what you feel, but be smart enough to realize it will be a long time before you know for sure what ultimate love really means, and it doesn't simply mean sex. Sex means nothing but trouble until you understand all the rest.
Reply:there is no age limit.


Even a few adults I have talked to (very smart adults by the way), at first yes, they told me that I am too young. But when I actually told them of my first experience they understood it was the real thing. It took me over a year or two to finally be at peace with myself since we parted.
Reply:they is no age limit u are not too young to be in love i been in love ones and i was feeling he but he dump me but that won't h......... to u he love u be happy
Reply:i dunno u could say that u are in love, but what u gotta realize is that u are only 14 and in 5 years time u will probabaly not even remember that guy, once ur older and get married u will realize that the love u have now is probably nothing in comparison

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