Is to love to suffer?

Isn't to love to suffer? It seems so to me. So to avoid suffering one must not love....but then one suffers from not loving.





So to love is to suffer and to not love is to suffer.... but to be happy is to love...so to be happy is then to suffer...and suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore to be unhappy one must love, or love to suffer, or maybe suffer from too much happiness. Can you follow me on this?





If so, i would like your opinions and reasons why you believe what you believe

Is to love to suffer?
is to love is to suffer? this is your main question that leads you to make funny equations,your main question is not bad,but your equations make me feel bad,by the way the main question has no proof and not applicable to all people by all means. how come that there are people who are not sufferring but still loving and living happily with their love ones?and there are sufferring but not loving as vice versa ,so if something happen to a certain person or to people,we can not generalize it,simply because it didn't happen to all people, might have some but not all.
Reply:love and suffering makes you feel alive dude! I saw this article on the internet about love and dating maybe it could make you see love on a new light. http://gotblab.com/what-makes-people-fal...
Reply:Love does bring suffering at times. I'd rather deal with those times of unhappiness, than happiness all the time from being alone and never loving. Although according to a book I once read "Love means never having to say you are sorry". I would think that would mean no suffering. I could be wrong though, wouldn't be the first time.
Reply:let's see ... to live is to suffer . why r u making equations love = happiness / love= suffer ... etc


i think u should just go with the flow without thinking about every thing u do , that was my problem when i was a kid . i thought too much , i analysed every single thing and look at me , it didn't get me anywhere . i didn't know the real happiness before i started to take risks , that' s the point of life , making choices ... be wise and trust yourself and i assure you , no more sadness (hopefully)
Reply:...you cannot suffer if you will not love......love and pain are like brother and sister....
Reply:I totally agree with you...anything i've ever loved has broken my heart...sister died...dad became an abusive/drug addict...last boyfriend who i was in love with abused me. so i personally think love is just gay. but idk its a totally confuzing thing.