I love my girlfriend, but she says she can never love me back.?

I met my girlfriend 3 years ago, and liked her all the time i have know her. About 5 months ago we started going out. I think i am in love with her - i think about her all the time, and i am incredibly happy when with her. I first said i love her about a month into our relationship, and she said i love you back. However recently i had inkling about things and had a week of really deep thinking which culminated in me asking her if she really loved me. She said no, and when i asked if she ever could, and she said no. I felt a mixture of upset, confused, angry and hurt (hard to expain!) by this, although i was glad she had told the truth and i understand it is exceedinlgy hard to say i dont love you back to someone you care for. Undoubtedly she likes me a lot but i would like to know if our relationship is effectively flat - is it possible to go out with someone who loves you although you are certain you could never love them back?

I love my girlfriend, but she says she can never love me back.?
wow...thts very...i dont kno...weird if shes ur gf then she should luv u and say tht she loves u and i hav no idea how ur gona luv her wen she dont luv u! i tink u should jus break up and move on b/c if u lik her but she dont lik u then thts a prob. thth ur gona hav 2 solve on ur own! srry!
Reply:Yes. It is possible. You're living proof of that.


It is however, not advisable, if you don't want to get hurt worse than you already are.





It also sounds like you are a bit co-dependent. I suggest breaking it off and finding ways to be as happy as you are with her on your own.
Reply:Everything seems great until the next thing comes along. It is possible, because never is a long time to say that you won't love someone. I wouldn't push it, but just try to be neutral for a while, and let her really think about it.
Reply:Ouch....Well she DID tell the truth. I know that what you're dealing with hurts. Maybe she will love you alot more later on, just give her a chance to get used to it.
Reply:even it it hurts, i think that you should just leave her.. though you say you love her, you can actually be with someone who will love you back, not like her. Look out for other girls, because they do say that there are better things out there.....maybe she just doesn't derserve you.on the other hand,she might think that you are going a little bit to fast for her. maybe she just wants to know you a little more personal.
Reply:she might be in a another relationship with someone else.
Reply:Yes, it is. After 5 months of dating, don't expect her to change her feelings.
Reply:If you are in love with her and she said that she could never be in love with you back then it is time to move on and be with someone that can be in love with you. Don't waste your time being with omeone that dosn't love you and will never love you.
Reply:get another girl she don't love you. and will never love you.
Reply:Sometimes life is very complicated.





However, what i'm thinking is, most important is; YOU LOVE YOUR SELF, take good care of your health, do your normal things.. She'll come back to you one day if she really miss you or if she really love you..





Try avoiding to force yourself into a relationship, sometimes it'll make things worse than expected. Good luck..
Reply:she is just useing u. get out while u still can.
Reply:I assume she's found somebody else, and that's exactly what you should do.
Reply:It's flat. It's better to be in a relationship in which the love is returned -- not one sided. Love hurts -- but it's time to find another. Or, at least break it off and take a break for a bit.
Reply:yes I've done it a couple of times too.


maybe she likes the attention u give her n she's just revelling in it till she finds some guy she loves.
Reply:You should dump her if she will never ♥ u there is no point but if u wanna fool around stay wit her
Reply:you will eventually fall in love with someone else...try going a gym
Reply:y cant she love you back? that is really weird. idk what to say. maybe she could change her feelings or maybe the relationship is flat