Love, but not IN love, confused?

my bf and i been together for 2 yrs. he loves and would do anything for me. i love him 2 but it just feels like hes my friend when im w/ him. i dont have intimate feelings for him like i used to and should. i been thinking and secretly talkin to my x-bf on and off. is that affecting how i feel about my bf now?? should i give up someone who loves me more than i know cuz i dont feel the same? or should i just hang in there and be happy that i have someone like that? im not happy where i am in my life right now. i feel like my bf is holding me back even tho hes not. i dont want to hurt him anymore. he wonders why i never "feel" like having sex. i feel really bad for pretending everythings okay w/ us. i cant stop thinking and dreaming about my ex. it is driving me crazy. should i just try to forget about him and focus on trying to love the man that loves me? will i ever be fully in love with him and commited to him?? im so confused. i dont want to hurt him but i have to do something

Love, but not IN love, confused?
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Reply:Don't u think ur hurting him now and holding him back by not being honest. If u are not happy and in love with him, u need to move on.
Reply:Never settle for less than what you want or just because someone loves you. question Will you ever be fully in love? Only you can make that decision. LOVE IS A CHOICE.


You need to make a decision