Is it possible to love someone MORE than you loved your FIRST love.????

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 yearz. And I know that he loves me.. but I'm just afraid he'll never love me as much as he loved his first love. And I'm afraid he still loves her. I know that in some ways you will Always have feelings for your first love. But is there anyone that he could love me more than he loved her? I'm scared that if she wanted too, right now she could tell him that she wantz to be with him, and hed leave me for her. I've talked to him about it, but he says he wouldnt, and that he doesnt love her anymore. But I know he does (Itz complicated) Can I please get some advice

Is it possible to love someone MORE than you loved your FIRST love.????
Can you explain this futher (itz complicated).
Reply:Definately!





My first love will always hold a special place in my heart, but it's my husband who is on the pedestal. And I'm sure he still has feelings for his first love (as much as I hate to think it), but I know he loves me more than her.





As a female, we're predisposed to be jealous of each other. We can't help it. And whatever happened in his past relationship(s), we will always be jealous, and we always hold that little fear of "what if he leaves?". It's something we must learn to deal with, and that's where the trust comes in to play. If you don't trust him, you'll only drive yourself crazy, and will eventually ruin your relationship. Unless he has given you a reason to believe he might leave you, don't dwell on it. Enjoy the relationship you have, for if he truly loved his first love, he would be with her now, and not with you.
Reply:Everyone will keep a very special place for their first love in their heart... it's a place no one else can touch. That doesn't mean if she wanted him back he'd take her back. He can always respect what they had, but know it's over and he's got something great with you.


In order for your r-ship w/ him to excel, you need to let go of your worries about his ex. YOU have him, not her. Just let it flow, and what's meant to be will be.


Good luck!
Reply:I dont know... I haven't forgotten my first love... It's possible, but i don't know for sure. don't worry, he loves you and he won't leave you though. He will ALWAYS have feelings for her... and you know that too and so does he! However, his feelings have altered and they are all for you now! be happy with the way you are =)
Reply:Of course it is possible to love someone more than your first love. Think:do you love your bf more than your first love? That was the past, and this is your present tense. =) dont be afraid that he loves her, be confident in yourself. if he says he loves you more, and he doesn't love her anymore, trust him. relationships are stronger with trust. good luck
Reply:Yes. Especially if you realize that the first one wasn't the one you were meant to be with. You have to trust him if you really love him. Hopefully he really has gotten over her. You shouldn't try to think too much about her. Concentrate more on your current relationship. If you give him everything you have and he does leave you for her, it wasn't meant to be.
Reply:First loves are special. I've been married for over 30 years, I love my hubby with all my heart and soul, but I am still madly in love with my "first love". I was when hubby and I got married, I was when I gave birth to our first child, and I still am--but it's not the person, it's the feeling of being in love for the first time, and I'm quite sure if that person showed up on my doorstep today I'd be thrilled--then totally disappointed--because he wouldn't be the person I chose to spend my life with, the one who's been here thru all good, bad and really crappy!!! My first love was my youth, carefree, and alot of stupid. My last love, my enduring love is now--all the vows we took--richer, poorer, sickness, health---mortgage, children, dogs, kitties, leaky roofs, and each other!!!
Reply:I think it is possible for someone to love another more than their first love. The reason why people tend to put so much value on their "first" love is because it's the first person they've ever felt that strongly about.





However, the reality is that most people don't end up marrying or spending the rest of their lives with their first love. So if he says he wants to be with you, I'd give him the benefit of the doubt. I mean, he could have gone back to her, but he chose to stay with you for 2 years. That must say something.





If I had to ask, is this boyfriend your first love?
Reply:As you grow and mature, you will love much more deeply. When I look back on the relationships I had in my teens and even my 20's, I just want to laugh! I think that as you get older, you see so many more layers to love and you can appreciate them so much more. So in answer to your question, yes, you definitely can love someone more than your first love.
Reply:Of course! It was only his first love. Do u love the guy u first dated more than your love now? Love is Love, but when you are over someone, your over them. If you love him, and he loves you, then there isn't any issue. And if you keep bringing her up to him, of course he is going to leave you becuase you are being to clingy. He's a guy. Guys flirt. That doesn't mean that he likes her more than he likes you.





Good Luck with you and your man
Reply:I'm confused by your z's in your question BUT....





Your first love isn't always your greatest love.. I felt like I would never have another love like my first love until I met my current boyfriend. When you find a amazing love you will know..





If he leaves you for her then your relationship wasn't meant to be. It sucks but you just end up getting on with it and before you know it someone a million times better comes out of nowhere and sweeps you off your feet!





good luck.
Reply:yes, obviously?.. you can have a first love / boyfriend or girlfriend and say you love them a lot and stuff but sometimes you never really feel the connection but if they did have a spark then why did they breakup? ever think of that .. you should watch some romantic movies and learn from it ;) and steal some of their lines .. hahaa or let your friend tell your boyfriend that so when youre ever hanging out or on a date he'll use it on you ! hahahaha =]
Reply:WITHOUT A DOUBT... FIRST LOVE IS ALWAYS SPECIAL BUT AT A CERTAIN POINT THEY JUST BECOME APART OF THE PAST...UNLESS UR LUCKY
Reply:oh totally. now i look back, my first love was nothing but a stupid infatuation. my current boyfriend is my love for life!!! been together 3 years and counting! :-)
Reply:i can only speak for myself on this and i hope that it helps. as we grow and mature and get educated in life we really change our views on what we want, need, etc. it is kinda hard to say this but i remember intimate detail about everything about the first true love. It is a basis on what we want. please do not let your security suffer. Drop suttle things, spend some intimate time (not sex), send him flowers. the things like that to let him know that you love him. be yourself
Reply:he'll always have feelings towards that girl but not feelings that would make him leave you for her. the first will always be special but you can love someone more.
Reply:I think it is definitely possible to love someone more than your first love.


But, I think you are more worried that he still loves someone else, right? I think the only way you need really be worried is if he ever puts her first in your life right now: does he ever hang out with her over you? Does he rush to help her with her problems, ever leaving you dangling? Do you see actual differences in the way he treats you versus her? If any of this rings true, you may have reason to worry.


Otherwise, I think it may just be relationship insecurity - which we all have!


In that case, if you've never talked with him about it before, you could bring it up with him. Otherwise, you could look really insecure and that never looks attractive. If you need to obsess over it - talk to one of your most trusted friends who is most likely to tell you if you are being insecure or there's really something to be worried about.
Reply:he might love you and she was just lust
Reply:if he wouldnt love you, he wouldnt be with you in the first place.


you gotta learn how to trust. just trust him. hes telling you the truth. so just trust him.
Reply:Of course! Love evolves, so it is possible as we mature...
Reply:yes its always possible to love someone more than your first love. Very few people marry thier first love. Usually your first love is called puppy love.
Reply:depends upon how u do.i loved my first love so much but then my current bf's so caring and understanding that he fills every space and clears all scars that my first love left. be MORE+ than his first love.... and trust him.
Reply:listen to what the guy has to say.


he doesnt love her.


he loves you.


the past is the past.


what you need to worry about is you and your mans future.


im pretty sure if he still "loved" her he wouldnt be with


some other chick for 2 whole years


just trust him thats very important in a relationship


and make him feel special tell him you love him more then once a day.


--good luck--
Reply:ofcourse. A lot of times you honestly believe that you love them but once its over you think it was stupid

Phrases to say I love you: What are some phrases to say that you love someone, look at my examples?

Here's some examples I have come up with and other people have told me:


I love you to death.


I love you to bits and pieces.


I love you oodles.


I love you from the bottom of me heart.


I love you from the end of the world and back.


I love you more than life itself.


I love you more than there are fish in the sea.


I love you more than words can tell.


I love you today as though tomorrow will never come.


I love you, you complete me.


I love you unconditionally.

Phrases to say I love you: What are some phrases to say that you love someone, look at my examples?
I love you more today than yesterday, but not as much as I will love you tomorrow.





I don't love you just because you are beautiful. I don't love you just because you are intelligent. I don't love you just becuase you are funny. I don't love you just because of the way you make me feel. I love you because of all those things and more.





I love you for you, nothing else.





I love you more than words or actions could possibly express.





Hope this helps!!
Reply:I love you, I lust you, and best of all I LIKE you.
Reply:I love you with all my heart.


I love you deeply.


I love you heart and soul.


I love you with more than my heart can hold.
Reply:I've got three words for you....I LOVE YOU.
Reply:I love you more than I did yesterday and less than I will tomorrow.
Reply:I love you more than you can possibly imagine.
Reply:I love you a google. I love you more than the grains of sand on the beach. I love you.
Reply:I love you more than there are Trees on the earth and Stars in the Sky.
Reply:i love you all the way to heaven and back


i love you till infedity and beyond


i love you more than anything in the world


GOOD LUCK!
Reply:I love you, but dang you get on my nerves.
Reply:i dont luv u

Love love love, love you better, no better than i do, no better than i do.....who sings this song?

Ok this is going to b a tough one, but im after this song that i dont know who sings or what the title is and im stuck with just this one line in my head which goes something like this...."love love love, love you better no better than i do, no better than i do" its pretty old im thinking 80's for some reason. Anyway if anyone has any suggestions that would b awesome. thanks.

Love love love, love you better, no better than i do, no better than i do.....who sings this song?
Hate (I Really Don't Like You) by plain white t's

Does she love me or is she confused?

She told me she loved me many times, so Im thinking she really does, but what confuses me is that, when we are in an argument and stop talking to each other,she shows me a lot of attention and smiling, etc...


but when wer'e okay and not in an argument, she acts like she loves me BUT ONLY HALF WAY, only half as much, an as soon as were fighting shes all into me. WHY???


She loves these other two guys and whether they argue or not she always gives attention and affection. Then i thought maybe she doesnt love me, but the way she acts around those two guys that im positive she loves, she acts around me, so Im thinking she loves me too.(not as much when were not in an argument and just as much when we are arguing).





Is it because she doesnt love me as much as i love her.


Is because she not attracted to girls as much as guys.


Does she just like me and it might be puppy love.

Does she love me or is she confused?
i think she is flat out confused!!

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My Poem Called "Love Is" by DJB.........What do you think?

Love is a glimpse of your eyes at morning's peak,


a kiss gentle and sweet like white roses,


your arms holding me whenever I sense fear


and my soul in comfort whenever you're near





Love is the passion that sets us free


your smile in the rain, so beautiful like gold


anytime you call to say I love you on the phone


then come home to me, so our love won't be alone





Love is everyday when we wake up together


you cook to soothe my soul


the feel of your heart beating next to mine


as long as you love me, I know i'll be fine





Love is our love lasting for eternity


a jewel so precious and real


and you loving me as much as I love you,


for there's nothing more joyous and sincerely true.

My Poem Called "Love Is" by DJB.........What do you think?
Wow, that's so beautiful and romantic. If you were thinking of a particular woman when you wrote this, she is a very lucky lady!
Reply:wow, that's magnificent!
Reply:I think it's a masterpiece!
Reply:great. i loved it. not much else to say. just it was like really good.





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Reply:wow dats beautiful ur giving me a run for my money.lol.x0x0x0x0x0xx0x0.

Love can be great ! BUT can also turn into a diease ?

Love can be so addictive.





We all search and long to be loved by someone specail.


The jounery towards love can be amazing, and the ride your on while in love out of this world.


However the flip side to love is the dark bottom less pit you must climb out of when you loose some one whom you've loved so dearly.





Isn't love the most addictive drug in the world, which can also turn into a diease ?

Love can be great ! BUT can also turn into a diease ?
Love is complicated, sweet, interpreted wrong all the time, and used for the right purposes as well as the wrong. Love gets torn apart and put back together a lot it seems, possibly in hopes of understanding it. The few who spend their lives thinking too deeply into it look past the beauty of love I think. Sometimes to the point where they are unable to experience it for themselves (only left with a text book definition). I guess we can't dissect it so much that there's nothing left. I would say take what you can from it, and take it as it is. Go searching for love in the most innocent and pure of ways, whether it be the love a guardian has for a child, the love and devotion to God (or whichever your beliefs may be), the love and interest for a particular hobby, or the love and adoration for a partner. If you seek to find love for only it's good, then in the end, you'll get happiness in return.
Reply:It is certainly addictive, but its almost like something we all need. I think it can turn into a disease sometimes also.
Reply:It looks like you been hurt badly in love. It is good that to have love nad lost than never to have loved. I do sympathise with you though. Love is such type of things the more you get the more you want. Some get hurt while others enjoy the feeling altogether.
Reply:It does my swede in ... It can be great but climbing out of that hole sucks................... 2nd time in 3 years :- (
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Reply:Sure!
Reply:It is wonderous, and yes very very dangerous when you are in love with the wrong person. It can literally kill you! I almost lost my life for my ex because I loved him sooo whole heartedly... But he didn't feel half the joy or respect for me that I had for him... He ate me alive... My heart, soul, and self respect... I am no longer with him obviously but I am very cautious not to let my 'immune' system fail on me again!
Reply:there way u explain lov it shows that u have true lov,u no what lov is, u no the hard pain that makes people to be drucked.yes its most addictive drugs in the world.lov and deth is the same thing.
Reply:Life and everything in it has its ups and downs, highs and lows, good side and bad side...the same goes w/ love...well @ least you think you're in love...but that kinda 'love' where you turn into a total stranger just because of a person you 'seem' to love...dang!that's dangerous...and later you find out that, that wasn't true love after all...it was just love coupled w/ lust/infatuation and a li'l bit of falling in love w/ the idea of being in love...w/c is totally bad for you...the thing is, try to slow it down, take things as they come and eventually the love you feel won't become a hell of a disease!
Reply:Some diseases could only be cured by other diseases.

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Love? Definition?

i always feel so empty and bored.





My friend asked me " have you ever been in love? "





I said " i dont know "





Friend : What is your definition of love?


Me:What the hell asking me such a thing..


Friend:What is your definition of love?


Me:Shut up


Friend:What is your definition of---


Me: LOVING SOMEONE


Friend:How do you know if you love that person?


Me: Dont ask me


Friend:Have you ever thought of sacrificing for him or her? Or giving up something else for that person?


Me: Huh? sacrifice? if it costs my life, no.


Friend: Have you ever liked someone deeply?


Me:Never thought about it


Friend:Then what is love?


Me: SACRIFICING, CARING, RESPONSIBILITY,ETC.. thats what i know.


Friend: I'm in love then...





I quickly walked away.. when i reached home.. i thought more about our conversation.. and now im super curious.. what are the signs that you like a person or a person likes you?

Love? Definition?
If your looking for a definition of LOVE..i would use this:





LOVE : The most spectacular,indescribable, deep euphoric


feeling for someone.





Love is an incredibly powerful word. When you're in love,


you always want to be together, and when you're not, you're


thinking about being together because you need that person


and without them your life is incomplete.





This love is unconditional affection with no limits or


conditions: completely loving someone. It's when you trust


the other with your life and when you would do anything for


each other. When you love someone you want nothing more


than for them to be truly happy no matter what it takes


because that's how much you care about them and because


their needs come before your own. You hide nothing of


yourself and can tell the other anything because you know


they accept you just the way you are and vice versa.





It's when they're the last thing you think about before you


go to sleep and when they're the first thing you think of


when you wake up, the feeling that warms your heart and


leaves you overcome by a feeling of serenity. Love


involves wanting to show your affection and/or devotion


to each other. It's the smile on your face you get when


you're thinking about them and miss them.





Love can make you do anything and sacrifice for what will


be better in the end. Love is intense,and passionate.


Everything seems brighter, happier and more wonderful when


you're in love.








But if your asking about LIKE, it's way less intense than love, I think so anyway..





Liking someone is more like a crush, you know you have feelings for a person, and theres something that attracts you to them, but you don't quite know them. Or your feelings arent as strong as loving someone.





I hope that made sense lol
Reply:you care more bout the person than you care about yourself is true love. obviously you've never been a parent.
Reply:when u see that person, u light up. when your with that person, your all smiles. when your away from that person, ur sick and u cant wait to talk to them on the phone because u miss them the minute u part. that person is always on your mind, all day long. these are just a few signs that ur in love or like someone alot
Reply:should have stuck around for what Paul Harvey calls " the rest of the story" , go back and demand clarity , or ask the person to clarify , tell them to be blunt , " do or die i say" , ya only live once , oh and my definition is " them finding you as appealing , sexually attractive , intellectually stimulating , and irresistible as you find them , jimi
Reply:actually there are no certain/sure signs that you like a person or a person will like you. the person can be extra nice, extra sweet, etc... anything that a person does to you with more extra effort..