i have a problem i was with my first love for 4 years i lost my virginity to him lived with him and loved him with all my heart. he did alot of things that hurt me time and time again he doesnt do everything right and hes not on top of everything but i love him. and now we've been broken up for 7 to 8 months and ive been seening this new guy for 6 months he great he does everything i want in a person hes motivating loving, understanding, successful, and he is husband material.. but i cant seem to stop thinking about my first love.. what is worth taking and having for life? real love with passion and hurt and history and disappointment. or what you've always wanted in a person? motivating, successful, loving considerate, and he listens! he really does.. and is great i do love him but in a different way..? what would you do and what should i do?
First love or new love?
There are things in life that aren't destined to be. There are times that we've done everything we can to make it work but seem couldn't work at all. Learn to accept that not everything in this world can be achieved. The new guy may have the husband material but your love/interest for him is not as deep as the other guy. Successful life means having contentment. Love can grow and the new guy deserves it more than the other. You may love the other guy more but what is important is that the other guy loves you more than he do, and accepting his love will help you heal the wounds of the past. Learn to love again in return.
Reply:I would continue the relationship with the new person until he gives you a reason not to. Besides babygirl dont ever backtrack, because you would be in a world of trouble and its not a pretty sight.
Reply:What humans feel when breaking off a relationship is similar to withdrawal symptoms from abusive substances. You know it is bad for you but still you want it badly.
The fact remains, you two are broken up, if he could leave you for 8 months, he doesnt really love you and he is probably bored in the relationship now and wants to move to new ground.
No point in marrying someone you dont really love either. Find someone new and move on with your life. You would not see this from a rational perspective right now because your emotions are overuling your rationality. We are after all human and subject to being prisoners of our own emotions.
Reply:I LOVE YOU!!!
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