Love is a glimpse of your eyes at morning's peak,
a kiss gentle and sweet like white roses,
your arms holding me whenever I sense fear
and my soul in comfort whenever you're near
Love is the passion that sets us free
your smile in the rain, so beautiful like gold
anytime you call to say I love you on the phone
then come home to me, so our love won't be alone
Love is everyday when we wake up together
you cook to soothe my soul
the feel of your heart beating next to mine
as long as you love me, I know i'll be fine
Love is our love lasting for eternity
a jewel so precious and real
and you loving me as much as I love you,
for there's nothing more joyous and sincerely true.
My Poem Called "Love Is" by DJB.........What do you think?
Wow, that's so beautiful and romantic. If you were thinking of a particular woman when you wrote this, she is a very lucky lady!
Reply:wow, that's magnificent!
Reply:I think it's a masterpiece!
Reply:great. i loved it. not much else to say. just it was like really good.
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Reply:wow dats beautiful ur giving me a run for my money.lol.x0x0x0x0x0xx0x0.
Thursday, November 19, 2009
Love can be great ! BUT can also turn into a diease ?
Love can be so addictive.
We all search and long to be loved by someone specail.
The jounery towards love can be amazing, and the ride your on while in love out of this world.
However the flip side to love is the dark bottom less pit you must climb out of when you loose some one whom you've loved so dearly.
Isn't love the most addictive drug in the world, which can also turn into a diease ?
Love can be great ! BUT can also turn into a diease ?
Love is complicated, sweet, interpreted wrong all the time, and used for the right purposes as well as the wrong. Love gets torn apart and put back together a lot it seems, possibly in hopes of understanding it. The few who spend their lives thinking too deeply into it look past the beauty of love I think. Sometimes to the point where they are unable to experience it for themselves (only left with a text book definition). I guess we can't dissect it so much that there's nothing left. I would say take what you can from it, and take it as it is. Go searching for love in the most innocent and pure of ways, whether it be the love a guardian has for a child, the love and devotion to God (or whichever your beliefs may be), the love and interest for a particular hobby, or the love and adoration for a partner. If you seek to find love for only it's good, then in the end, you'll get happiness in return.
Reply:It is certainly addictive, but its almost like something we all need. I think it can turn into a disease sometimes also.
Reply:It looks like you been hurt badly in love. It is good that to have love nad lost than never to have loved. I do sympathise with you though. Love is such type of things the more you get the more you want. Some get hurt while others enjoy the feeling altogether.
Reply:It does my swede in ... It can be great but climbing out of that hole sucks................... 2nd time in 3 years :- (
Reply:blah blah blah
Reply:Sure!
Reply:It is wonderous, and yes very very dangerous when you are in love with the wrong person. It can literally kill you! I almost lost my life for my ex because I loved him sooo whole heartedly... But he didn't feel half the joy or respect for me that I had for him... He ate me alive... My heart, soul, and self respect... I am no longer with him obviously but I am very cautious not to let my 'immune' system fail on me again!
Reply:there way u explain lov it shows that u have true lov,u no what lov is, u no the hard pain that makes people to be drucked.yes its most addictive drugs in the world.lov and deth is the same thing.
Reply:Life and everything in it has its ups and downs, highs and lows, good side and bad side...the same goes w/ love...well @ least you think you're in love...but that kinda 'love' where you turn into a total stranger just because of a person you 'seem' to love...dang!that's dangerous...and later you find out that, that wasn't true love after all...it was just love coupled w/ lust/infatuation and a li'l bit of falling in love w/ the idea of being in love...w/c is totally bad for you...the thing is, try to slow it down, take things as they come and eventually the love you feel won't become a hell of a disease!
Reply:Some diseases could only be cured by other diseases.
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We all search and long to be loved by someone specail.
The jounery towards love can be amazing, and the ride your on while in love out of this world.
However the flip side to love is the dark bottom less pit you must climb out of when you loose some one whom you've loved so dearly.
Isn't love the most addictive drug in the world, which can also turn into a diease ?
Love can be great ! BUT can also turn into a diease ?
Love is complicated, sweet, interpreted wrong all the time, and used for the right purposes as well as the wrong. Love gets torn apart and put back together a lot it seems, possibly in hopes of understanding it. The few who spend their lives thinking too deeply into it look past the beauty of love I think. Sometimes to the point where they are unable to experience it for themselves (only left with a text book definition). I guess we can't dissect it so much that there's nothing left. I would say take what you can from it, and take it as it is. Go searching for love in the most innocent and pure of ways, whether it be the love a guardian has for a child, the love and devotion to God (or whichever your beliefs may be), the love and interest for a particular hobby, or the love and adoration for a partner. If you seek to find love for only it's good, then in the end, you'll get happiness in return.
Reply:It is certainly addictive, but its almost like something we all need. I think it can turn into a disease sometimes also.
Reply:It looks like you been hurt badly in love. It is good that to have love nad lost than never to have loved. I do sympathise with you though. Love is such type of things the more you get the more you want. Some get hurt while others enjoy the feeling altogether.
Reply:It does my swede in ... It can be great but climbing out of that hole sucks................... 2nd time in 3 years :- (
Reply:blah blah blah
Reply:Sure!
Reply:It is wonderous, and yes very very dangerous when you are in love with the wrong person. It can literally kill you! I almost lost my life for my ex because I loved him sooo whole heartedly... But he didn't feel half the joy or respect for me that I had for him... He ate me alive... My heart, soul, and self respect... I am no longer with him obviously but I am very cautious not to let my 'immune' system fail on me again!
Reply:there way u explain lov it shows that u have true lov,u no what lov is, u no the hard pain that makes people to be drucked.yes its most addictive drugs in the world.lov and deth is the same thing.
Reply:Life and everything in it has its ups and downs, highs and lows, good side and bad side...the same goes w/ love...well @ least you think you're in love...but that kinda 'love' where you turn into a total stranger just because of a person you 'seem' to love...dang!that's dangerous...and later you find out that, that wasn't true love after all...it was just love coupled w/ lust/infatuation and a li'l bit of falling in love w/ the idea of being in love...w/c is totally bad for you...the thing is, try to slow it down, take things as they come and eventually the love you feel won't become a hell of a disease!
Reply:Some diseases could only be cured by other diseases.
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Love? Definition?
i always feel so empty and bored.
My friend asked me " have you ever been in love? "
I said " i dont know "
Friend : What is your definition of love?
Me:What the hell asking me such a thing..
Friend:What is your definition of love?
Me:Shut up
Friend:What is your definition of---
Me: LOVING SOMEONE
Friend:How do you know if you love that person?
Me: Dont ask me
Friend:Have you ever thought of sacrificing for him or her? Or giving up something else for that person?
Me: Huh? sacrifice? if it costs my life, no.
Friend: Have you ever liked someone deeply?
Me:Never thought about it
Friend:Then what is love?
Me: SACRIFICING, CARING, RESPONSIBILITY,ETC.. thats what i know.
Friend: I'm in love then...
I quickly walked away.. when i reached home.. i thought more about our conversation.. and now im super curious.. what are the signs that you like a person or a person likes you?
Love? Definition?
If your looking for a definition of LOVE..i would use this:
LOVE : The most spectacular,indescribable, deep euphoric
feeling for someone.
Love is an incredibly powerful word. When you're in love,
you always want to be together, and when you're not, you're
thinking about being together because you need that person
and without them your life is incomplete.
This love is unconditional affection with no limits or
conditions: completely loving someone. It's when you trust
the other with your life and when you would do anything for
each other. When you love someone you want nothing more
than for them to be truly happy no matter what it takes
because that's how much you care about them and because
their needs come before your own. You hide nothing of
yourself and can tell the other anything because you know
they accept you just the way you are and vice versa.
It's when they're the last thing you think about before you
go to sleep and when they're the first thing you think of
when you wake up, the feeling that warms your heart and
leaves you overcome by a feeling of serenity. Love
involves wanting to show your affection and/or devotion
to each other. It's the smile on your face you get when
you're thinking about them and miss them.
Love can make you do anything and sacrifice for what will
be better in the end. Love is intense,and passionate.
Everything seems brighter, happier and more wonderful when
you're in love.
But if your asking about LIKE, it's way less intense than love, I think so anyway..
Liking someone is more like a crush, you know you have feelings for a person, and theres something that attracts you to them, but you don't quite know them. Or your feelings arent as strong as loving someone.
I hope that made sense lol
Reply:you care more bout the person than you care about yourself is true love. obviously you've never been a parent.
Reply:when u see that person, u light up. when your with that person, your all smiles. when your away from that person, ur sick and u cant wait to talk to them on the phone because u miss them the minute u part. that person is always on your mind, all day long. these are just a few signs that ur in love or like someone alot
Reply:should have stuck around for what Paul Harvey calls " the rest of the story" , go back and demand clarity , or ask the person to clarify , tell them to be blunt , " do or die i say" , ya only live once , oh and my definition is " them finding you as appealing , sexually attractive , intellectually stimulating , and irresistible as you find them , jimi
Reply:actually there are no certain/sure signs that you like a person or a person will like you. the person can be extra nice, extra sweet, etc... anything that a person does to you with more extra effort..
My friend asked me " have you ever been in love? "
I said " i dont know "
Friend : What is your definition of love?
Me:What the hell asking me such a thing..
Friend:What is your definition of love?
Me:Shut up
Friend:What is your definition of---
Me: LOVING SOMEONE
Friend:How do you know if you love that person?
Me: Dont ask me
Friend:Have you ever thought of sacrificing for him or her? Or giving up something else for that person?
Me: Huh? sacrifice? if it costs my life, no.
Friend: Have you ever liked someone deeply?
Me:Never thought about it
Friend:Then what is love?
Me: SACRIFICING, CARING, RESPONSIBILITY,ETC.. thats what i know.
Friend: I'm in love then...
I quickly walked away.. when i reached home.. i thought more about our conversation.. and now im super curious.. what are the signs that you like a person or a person likes you?
Love? Definition?
If your looking for a definition of LOVE..i would use this:
LOVE : The most spectacular,indescribable, deep euphoric
feeling for someone.
Love is an incredibly powerful word. When you're in love,
you always want to be together, and when you're not, you're
thinking about being together because you need that person
and without them your life is incomplete.
This love is unconditional affection with no limits or
conditions: completely loving someone. It's when you trust
the other with your life and when you would do anything for
each other. When you love someone you want nothing more
than for them to be truly happy no matter what it takes
because that's how much you care about them and because
their needs come before your own. You hide nothing of
yourself and can tell the other anything because you know
they accept you just the way you are and vice versa.
It's when they're the last thing you think about before you
go to sleep and when they're the first thing you think of
when you wake up, the feeling that warms your heart and
leaves you overcome by a feeling of serenity. Love
involves wanting to show your affection and/or devotion
to each other. It's the smile on your face you get when
you're thinking about them and miss them.
Love can make you do anything and sacrifice for what will
be better in the end. Love is intense,and passionate.
Everything seems brighter, happier and more wonderful when
you're in love.
But if your asking about LIKE, it's way less intense than love, I think so anyway..
Liking someone is more like a crush, you know you have feelings for a person, and theres something that attracts you to them, but you don't quite know them. Or your feelings arent as strong as loving someone.
I hope that made sense lol
Reply:you care more bout the person than you care about yourself is true love. obviously you've never been a parent.
Reply:when u see that person, u light up. when your with that person, your all smiles. when your away from that person, ur sick and u cant wait to talk to them on the phone because u miss them the minute u part. that person is always on your mind, all day long. these are just a few signs that ur in love or like someone alot
Reply:should have stuck around for what Paul Harvey calls " the rest of the story" , go back and demand clarity , or ask the person to clarify , tell them to be blunt , " do or die i say" , ya only live once , oh and my definition is " them finding you as appealing , sexually attractive , intellectually stimulating , and irresistible as you find them , jimi
Reply:actually there are no certain/sure signs that you like a person or a person will like you. the person can be extra nice, extra sweet, etc... anything that a person does to you with more extra effort..
"love" and "in love"?
Define "Love" and "In Love". Can you love your spouse but not be in love with them, and still want to be married to them? Can you make love without being in love?
"love" and "in love"?
Love is a sentiment that is not exclusive to a certain type of relationship. You can love people, animals and things and they all hold a differet place in your life. Being in love is an exclusive feeling that is, usually, shared with one other person and that more than likely develops over time and constitutes different things for different people.
You can love someone and not be in love with them, but that relationship as i mentioned, would be comprable to other relationships in your life. And of course you could want to marry them because you care for them and value them in your life. But for you to already think you are not in love could be a sign of trouble in the future.
Can you make love without being in love? I can't but come on in this day and age? People pay for that kind of stuff so obviously, technically you can make love in one sense of the word.
hope thats not too confusing
Reply:I wish I knew!
We've been friends for over 25 yrs. and have been in a relationship for 2. We live together.
But he says.. "I love you, but I'm not in love with you"
What's up with that?
I can't wait to read the responses you get.
Reply:I love my friends and family,
BUT
I don't want to have sex with them
I don't want to 'make' a family with them
I don't sit around all day fantasizing about them
I don't wish all day I could just be with them forever
I don't find it arousing it hug and kiss them
I don't want to spend forever with them
ooo and I'm not in lust with them either :)
If I fulfill all of the above then I'll probably hunt him with a pitch fork and marry him
Reply:The best way to deal with this is to be able to define those terms yourself. There's more to it than "this or that". If you'd like to talk about it, I'm more than happy to work with you on this issue. Send me an e-mail or look on my profile for my messenger information. Talking in real-time on an instant messenger would work a lot better though. I hope to hear from you soon.
Heath
Reply:for me ' not '.
Reply:yes i can
"love" and "in love"?
Love is a sentiment that is not exclusive to a certain type of relationship. You can love people, animals and things and they all hold a differet place in your life. Being in love is an exclusive feeling that is, usually, shared with one other person and that more than likely develops over time and constitutes different things for different people.
You can love someone and not be in love with them, but that relationship as i mentioned, would be comprable to other relationships in your life. And of course you could want to marry them because you care for them and value them in your life. But for you to already think you are not in love could be a sign of trouble in the future.
Can you make love without being in love? I can't but come on in this day and age? People pay for that kind of stuff so obviously, technically you can make love in one sense of the word.
hope thats not too confusing
Reply:I wish I knew!
We've been friends for over 25 yrs. and have been in a relationship for 2. We live together.
But he says.. "I love you, but I'm not in love with you"
What's up with that?
I can't wait to read the responses you get.
Reply:I love my friends and family,
BUT
I don't want to have sex with them
I don't want to 'make' a family with them
I don't sit around all day fantasizing about them
I don't wish all day I could just be with them forever
I don't find it arousing it hug and kiss them
I don't want to spend forever with them
ooo and I'm not in lust with them either :)
If I fulfill all of the above then I'll probably hunt him with a pitch fork and marry him
Reply:The best way to deal with this is to be able to define those terms yourself. There's more to it than "this or that". If you'd like to talk about it, I'm more than happy to work with you on this issue. Send me an e-mail or look on my profile for my messenger information. Talking in real-time on an instant messenger would work a lot better though. I hope to hear from you soon.
Heath
Reply:for me ' not '.
Reply:yes i can
Defined love base on this story......?
according this love story,they fall in love at first and get married.then as they get older they dont felt love unlike before...it suddenly change.they had son and telling him about their love story then. and they fully inspired telling how it goes...but the quesstion is.....? do u think their love is gone???or they may love but the passion of love was through?HOW COULD YOU DEFINED LOVE BASE ON THIS STORY??
Defined love base on this story......?
I would have to say that there is hope but there is a lack of communication and a lack of will. I am with my husband b/c I "want" to be and he is with me b/c he "wants" to be, when things start to go dull we spruce it up by doing things we've never done or going somewhere we've never gone. We do things together to get those feeling back before they are too far out of our reach! If both parties are willing then there is all the hope in the world yet if one person is not willing or is unable then it is left up to the other person to carry the weight of both, making the job harder although it can be done, (I am talking of times of sickness or depression), unless of course the other person just really doesn't want it to work out and in this case why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? Communicate first find out really how you both feel then go from there. Good luck!
Reply:you have to work at it
love is something that has to be cherished something that is both give and take and you need to rekindle it every now and then
Reply:wow! that was hard to understand. if they were too young tho it was probably lust and not love and yes you can outgrow it. sorry.
Reply:you try your best to make love stay, sometimes it does, sometimes it doesn't
same for passion, that only usually lasts 2 years or so, unless you spice it up somehow
Reply:I say they need to put the spice back in the marriage.
Defined love base on this story......?
I would have to say that there is hope but there is a lack of communication and a lack of will. I am with my husband b/c I "want" to be and he is with me b/c he "wants" to be, when things start to go dull we spruce it up by doing things we've never done or going somewhere we've never gone. We do things together to get those feeling back before they are too far out of our reach! If both parties are willing then there is all the hope in the world yet if one person is not willing or is unable then it is left up to the other person to carry the weight of both, making the job harder although it can be done, (I am talking of times of sickness or depression), unless of course the other person just really doesn't want it to work out and in this case why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? Communicate first find out really how you both feel then go from there. Good luck!
Reply:you have to work at it
love is something that has to be cherished something that is both give and take and you need to rekindle it every now and then
Reply:wow! that was hard to understand. if they were too young tho it was probably lust and not love and yes you can outgrow it. sorry.
Reply:you try your best to make love stay, sometimes it does, sometimes it doesn't
same for passion, that only usually lasts 2 years or so, unless you spice it up somehow
Reply:I say they need to put the spice back in the marriage.
Why does love hurt continued?
True love should not hurt not ever. I think we have confused love with like. Friends love eachother but is it the kind of love a man has for his wife? Maybe. I had that love for a friend here online. She ate it up for a while but in the end she finally came clean and I belive in time she freed herself of the life. She actually is in love or will be with some one else. And until she told me things only got worse. I got over the hurt. Yes it hurt. I'm more deeply concerned for her. I know that God has the ONE out there for me and to her should she ever read this I LOVE YOU BABY. The lesson is learned and what I got from my friend and me was character building. I'm a stronger and better man for this and she's a stronger and better woman and I wish her and her bf the best of luck. Same for all of u. True love never hurts it's partner it only gets turned in a different direction or aimed at the wrong people some times but that does not mean we cannot love that person as a friend.
Why does love hurt continued?
I am a 27 year old mother of three. I was struggling with life until I met the most wonderful man. He was 19 years older than me but from the moment he looked my way I was his. He and I fell deeply in love. My kids loved him so much. They had been through alot. My 9 yr. old sons father shook him at 6 mos. old and he was severely injured and is now confined to a wheelchair. Then my now 5 %26amp; 7 yr. old little girls were molested by their father. I tell you this because it shows why I was so happy when I finally found the love of my life that brought happiness back into my babies lives and taught me to trust in men again. We were perfect for each other. The one problem was he couldnt handle it if he drank and we fought. On 4 different occasions he left me. He was drunk and not thinking clearly. It was the fourth time he left that I told my parents and that was it. My father said if I took him back this time he would have nothing to do with me. Not only was that bad enough but a girl whom I thought was a friend told him I had been cheatining on him. I have never been unfaithful to any man. He filed for divorce and no matter how much I begged him to come home, he just said he couldn't cause it was too late. We both were crushed and I will never be over it totally. I have since moved on with my life and I am engaged to be married in the future to a wonderful man. He has custody of his two boys and my children call him daddy. We are so in love but as you know the past will always hurt and love still lies deep within. I feel your pain and I don't know why love has to hurt. And you are right. We can love that person as a friend. I too am a stronger and better person now. Pain teaches us lessons in life. They may be hard but that is part of lifes journey. God has a plan for us and whatever happens is meant to be. Thank you for being intelligent and giving great insight. Sorry for your hurt but we both are still alive aren't we. Lets do each other a favor and smile:)
bad breath
Why does love hurt continued?
I am a 27 year old mother of three. I was struggling with life until I met the most wonderful man. He was 19 years older than me but from the moment he looked my way I was his. He and I fell deeply in love. My kids loved him so much. They had been through alot. My 9 yr. old sons father shook him at 6 mos. old and he was severely injured and is now confined to a wheelchair. Then my now 5 %26amp; 7 yr. old little girls were molested by their father. I tell you this because it shows why I was so happy when I finally found the love of my life that brought happiness back into my babies lives and taught me to trust in men again. We were perfect for each other. The one problem was he couldnt handle it if he drank and we fought. On 4 different occasions he left me. He was drunk and not thinking clearly. It was the fourth time he left that I told my parents and that was it. My father said if I took him back this time he would have nothing to do with me. Not only was that bad enough but a girl whom I thought was a friend told him I had been cheatining on him. I have never been unfaithful to any man. He filed for divorce and no matter how much I begged him to come home, he just said he couldn't cause it was too late. We both were crushed and I will never be over it totally. I have since moved on with my life and I am engaged to be married in the future to a wonderful man. He has custody of his two boys and my children call him daddy. We are so in love but as you know the past will always hurt and love still lies deep within. I feel your pain and I don't know why love has to hurt. And you are right. We can love that person as a friend. I too am a stronger and better person now. Pain teaches us lessons in life. They may be hard but that is part of lifes journey. God has a plan for us and whatever happens is meant to be. Thank you for being intelligent and giving great insight. Sorry for your hurt but we both are still alive aren't we. Lets do each other a favor and smile:)
bad breath
I love him, but he loves my best friend?
I have loved him for so long...Me, one of my friends, and him, are really tight, but he loves her....She's alot prettier than me, and that's probably why. He did ask me out once but I said no because I was REALLY shy and I thought my friend liked him. I hate it when he tells me how pretty she is and how funny and smart she is.....I just can't take it. I feel like I don't have a chance. I'm really confused....She doesn't love him but he loves her...He used to love me but not anymore.....Now I love him and he loves my best friend.
I can't tell him how I feel. Please don't suggest that I do. What I need is for him to ask me out again. We talk on IM a lot, and I can call him too....How can I make him want me instead of her?
I love him, but he loves my best friend?
that guy is a jerk, if he truly loved u before, he shouldn't love someone who is so close to you. why continue to love him when he is someone just judging on looks? ur bestfriend might not be the only target that he is switching to. you should learn how to let go. it isn't too bad after all because there are always better guys around, and learning to let go is a stage in ur life. =) don't make yourself live a life without pride for him, if you leave him now, many people will applaud for you, tell him you are not some girl to be bent around.=)
Reply:try giving off a flirtatious vibe while being descrete at the same time. maybe he'll catch ur drift
Reply:Well I guess you could try and spend loads of time with him. And maybe try and work up to try and tell him. I mean if he used to like you. it's still got to be there only kinda pushed to the side if you know what I mean. If you try and push that maybe he'll see the light ^.^
Reply:u had ur chance and u said no so now he thnks u dont like him
Reply:I suggest to be really pretty and impress him.
or the easy way--just tell him u like him alott.
Reply:well sorry, you might have to make a move. He is not going to just ask you out again if you have already turned him down.
If you have a cruel heart like me there is one thing slightly unethical that you could try. Get the boy to ask your friend out, maybe even hint to him that she likes him (never come right out and say it, just hint at it). Then after your friend shoots him down, and he will come to you feeling like a loser, this is when you comfort him and start flirting with him and he sees that you have feelings for him and remembers why he likes you.
Reply:What a loser!
Reply:I think you may have missed your opportunity :/
Reply:uh.....if i was u i would like try to open up more ask him if he want to hang out or somthin try that and maybe he will
Reply:Sounds like you better get over it and move on.
Reply:well just try to be like her BUT even better! But the thing is you should never dump your best friend just because your crush likes her
Reply:send him this question...
Reply:Look i know you said that you cant tell him how u feel but it might be the bestthing to do. I think that you should tell your friend how u feel about him so that she knows to stay away from him. Maybe if she shows him that she doesnt like him ( in a nice way we dont want broken hearts) then he might get over her,
Look you only live once and I have always said if you like someone you should always tell them because all you are doing right now is wasting time. If you tell me and he said yes i like you too then your happy you have got your man, but if he said no sorry i dont feel the same way then you know that you have to move on and stop wasting time and you will find the perfect man who feels the same way about you.
You may feel hurt for some time if he doesnt like you but if he does like you then thats great
GOOD LUCK and i hope i helped
Reply:You're throwing around that word love a lot.
None of you loves any of you, in the sense that you are speaking. He is attracted to her because she is (duh) attractive, and possesses some positive qualities. Same with you for him.
Just deal with it. You remind me of myself in middle school. If that's how old you are, just wait and it will get better. If you are an adult, then you need to grow up.
Sorry I couldn't sugar coat that. But don't get mad at me. Do you really want everyone to talk to you in a nice, patronizing way?
I can't tell him how I feel. Please don't suggest that I do. What I need is for him to ask me out again. We talk on IM a lot, and I can call him too....How can I make him want me instead of her?
I love him, but he loves my best friend?
that guy is a jerk, if he truly loved u before, he shouldn't love someone who is so close to you. why continue to love him when he is someone just judging on looks? ur bestfriend might not be the only target that he is switching to. you should learn how to let go. it isn't too bad after all because there are always better guys around, and learning to let go is a stage in ur life. =) don't make yourself live a life without pride for him, if you leave him now, many people will applaud for you, tell him you are not some girl to be bent around.=)
Reply:try giving off a flirtatious vibe while being descrete at the same time. maybe he'll catch ur drift
Reply:Well I guess you could try and spend loads of time with him. And maybe try and work up to try and tell him. I mean if he used to like you. it's still got to be there only kinda pushed to the side if you know what I mean. If you try and push that maybe he'll see the light ^.^
Reply:u had ur chance and u said no so now he thnks u dont like him
Reply:I suggest to be really pretty and impress him.
or the easy way--just tell him u like him alott.
Reply:well sorry, you might have to make a move. He is not going to just ask you out again if you have already turned him down.
If you have a cruel heart like me there is one thing slightly unethical that you could try. Get the boy to ask your friend out, maybe even hint to him that she likes him (never come right out and say it, just hint at it). Then after your friend shoots him down, and he will come to you feeling like a loser, this is when you comfort him and start flirting with him and he sees that you have feelings for him and remembers why he likes you.
Reply:What a loser!
Reply:I think you may have missed your opportunity :/
Reply:uh.....if i was u i would like try to open up more ask him if he want to hang out or somthin try that and maybe he will
Reply:Sounds like you better get over it and move on.
Reply:well just try to be like her BUT even better! But the thing is you should never dump your best friend just because your crush likes her
Reply:send him this question...
Reply:Look i know you said that you cant tell him how u feel but it might be the bestthing to do. I think that you should tell your friend how u feel about him so that she knows to stay away from him. Maybe if she shows him that she doesnt like him ( in a nice way we dont want broken hearts) then he might get over her,
Look you only live once and I have always said if you like someone you should always tell them because all you are doing right now is wasting time. If you tell me and he said yes i like you too then your happy you have got your man, but if he said no sorry i dont feel the same way then you know that you have to move on and stop wasting time and you will find the perfect man who feels the same way about you.
You may feel hurt for some time if he doesnt like you but if he does like you then thats great
GOOD LUCK and i hope i helped
Reply:You're throwing around that word love a lot.
None of you loves any of you, in the sense that you are speaking. He is attracted to her because she is (duh) attractive, and possesses some positive qualities. Same with you for him.
Just deal with it. You remind me of myself in middle school. If that's how old you are, just wait and it will get better. If you are an adult, then you need to grow up.
Sorry I couldn't sugar coat that. But don't get mad at me. Do you really want everyone to talk to you in a nice, patronizing way?
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